My ex wants to still have sex with me but has a girlfriend

[f0reverandalways]

About a week ago I saw my ex and we talked and stuff because we hadn't seen each other in like a year. So he was a little drunk and asked me to sleep over so I did and he told me he didn't want to have Sex because he has a girlfriend that he "loves" but he just wanted to sleep and cuddle with me because he "missed" me. Back than when we dated we lasted 2 years together but our relationship ended because he thought I was to "immature". When we dated I was 15 he was 18 now I am 20 he is 23. Anyway he told me how much he loved his new girlfriend and didn't want to cheat on her but yet he kept touching me and kissing me and telling me how he loves having me! So also let me make it clear I DO NOT HAVE ANY EMOTIONAL FEELINGS FOR HIM. I don't love him anymore! The reason I slept over was because I am single and horny and kinda wanted to have sex with him since its been long since the last time I saw him. I didn't know he had a girlfriend till he told me so I respected that but than he kept touching me and started kissing me and telling me that I am beautiful! In the heat of the moment I didn't think twice and we ended having sex! Next morning he woke up and got me breakfast and continued to cuddle with me! I felt uncomfortable because I just wanted it to be a one night thing. Later while still in bed both naked he told me that I shouldn't get my hopes up that he would never leave his girl for me so I made it clear that I had no feeling for him and that I didn't want nor thought of wanting a relationship with him. I told him that this only happen because he wanted to and I was horny but that was all! So he told me that he was happy that we were on the same page and that he wanted to continue having sex with me because he likes it, if it's fine with me. So I agreed on having sex with him every once in a while but I kinda feel bad for the girlfriend but when I think of it it's not my fault this guy is a dick and obviously doesn't love her other wise he wouldn't be looking for me and calling me. I don't mind having just sex with him because I am single so it's him who should feel bad right? I get, that it's not fair for the girlfriend but I dont considered it my fault! I don't even know her. I really don't know how to feel about this ?? Like I am not the cheater here! Nor do I want something seriouse with him I just miss having sex with him cuz it's so dam good. And also do you really think he love his girlfriend?? Or why is he calling me? He told me he doesn't have feeling for me but his actions shower otherwise??

[whichwayisup]

So I agreed on having sex with him every once in a while but I kinda feel bad for the girlfriend but when I think of it it's not my fault this guy is a dick and obviously doesn't love her other wise he wouldn't be looking for me and calling me

 

Chances are high that he cheated on you with his ex girlfriend while you were having a relationship with him, so keep that in mind next time you hop into bed with him...

 

Men can separate love and sex, quite easily and just because he's having sex with you doesn't mean he doesn't love his gf. He's just selfish and incapable of having a relationship without having sex on the side with someone else.

 

For your own sake, I hope you two used condoms.

[Sassy Girl]

He's using to you to masturbate because it beats using his hand. As long as you're happy being used, knock yourself out.

 

But don't kid yourself, you are cheating the girlfriend also... You're an accomplice.

 

He made himself clear... No feelings, no relationship, just a booty call. You're not good enough to date, apparently.

[ralfgarnett]

Have you got no respect for yourself at all ?, all you are to him is something for him to use to get himself off, you are a piece of meat to him, if your horny either do what nature intended or find yourself a decent boyfriend that respects you because its quite clear that lover boy has no respect for you at all to him you are an object even a possession and as I said it seems you have no respect for yourself either.

[veggirl]

Look, there are enough ****ty people in this world, do you need to be one yourself? Who cares what his motives are? (spoiler alert, he's 23, his motive is get as much booty as he can) How would you feel if another girl was banging your bf and didn't give a crap because it's not her who should feel badly?

 

C'mon. Have some respect for a) yourself by not being a booty call to a guy w/ a gf and b) your fellow woman by not screwing her boyfriend.