She asked to meet up??

[Yousif456]

Well this is both unexpected and rather confusing.

 

Let's just say ever since our breakup (Which was over something stupid anyway, we both regretted it but never put in the effort to get back together) we drifted apart, it wasn't a typical bitter breakup where after all was set we just cut ties and pretended the other didn't exist, it was really we just had a casual talk now and again on good friendly terms.

 

Time passed around eight months, and she said to me just about this time yesterday "We really need to catchup sometime in the new year" and "Maybe it could become a regular thing" which I didn't expect that much, we haven't been close in, well, ages.

 

Can this lead onto something? quite likely, but it's dependable.

 

First and foremost our relationship wasn't exactly ideal for both of us, I lived across 50 miles away with little or no money I can come down and see her with, she didn't have a car either, but we met each other enough for the relationship to last 6 months. Did it play a part in our breakup? not really. But that changed with me moving around a city over to where she is for a job, so just about 10 miles apart, so if something did happen I can rest assured I have that covered.

 

So, if this actually does go through, what's there to do?

Edited December 28, 2014 by Yousif456

[TB1608]

"Maybe it can become a regular thing"

 

To me that reads "I miss you, let's try again". I would just be careful that she's not just saying that because she's lonely and because she really wants to give it ago. If you want her back you can start a friendship and see where it goes.

 

Be careful, some people just want to know you're still into them and that's it.

[Yousif456]

"Maybe it can become a regular thing"

 

To me that reads "I miss you, let's try again". I would just be careful that she's not just saying that because she's lonely and because she really wants to give it ago. If you want her back you can start a friendship and see where it goes.

 

Be careful, some people just want to know you're still into them and that's it.

 

If anything I'm still taken by surprise about it, considering how the breakup went and we've been on friendly terms after I think it's helped, but at the same time I know she is so incredibly stubborn, I know that she is never really one for second chances with anybody including friends, but if we do I'll be the second guy she's ever got back together with

 

I'm going to just work through it and sort out my feelings, I plan to just work back up trust as a friendship then really just see where it goes from here, keep my hopes to a minimum.

[Yousif456]

Well since then not really much to say in terms of an update, things have been pretty stable, even though to me anyway she's been a tad mixed.

 

I tend to try to keep things positive, make jokes and tease her occasionally, recently she's taken more to not really giving much if not anything back, just been in a off mood with me constantly. Same for a few other people.

 

The meetup is still a while off yet, chances are it'll be before February but the "maybe it can be a regular thing" still gets me, I think there's a good chance this can lead to more if I do play my cards right.