I know my problems with dating and I need answers. Post about interview.....

[legendlegendlegend]

"Anyway 2 x guys messaged me a few days ago, both not really my cup of tea, but I thought I need to broaden my horizons, in terms of ditching the ideal man ''Tall, Dark, Handsome'' which is nothing more than a fantasy I think and date men I would never go for. I have been nattering with both for a couple of days, and both seem very keen to meet, which is no problem.

 

However out of the 2, one just seems to persistently message, to the point where I feel a bit suffocated? It's no longer banter, more like a forced conversation which makes me think when/if I am to meet this man, will there be anything left to talk about? Not only that I feel like I am being interviewed - I do enough of that in my job, don't need it whilst dating.

 

However the other guy I seem to click with quite well; 3 years older than myself (the persistent questioner is giving me 8 years), seems to get/understand my wit and sense of humour, and doesn't take himself seriously or bombard with me XYZ questions." Saying he had no substance all he did was ask questions.

 

 

I am pretty basic when talking to people or women and I have no idea how I am supposed to be random banter witty or cocky or have "substance" how am I supposed to know how to do this or figure this out I turned 27 years old and I need to have this stuff learned ASAP so I can get this worked out or I am never going to date. I am a funny guy but not in being banter or witty or things like that women want.

 

SO TELL ME HOW DO YOU DO THAT AND MESSAGE WOMEN ONLINE LIKE THAT? HELP!?

Edited January 3, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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[coolheadal]

Explain more about this post about interview? Are you asking a question or just wanting answers for something?

Edited December 30, 2014 by coolheadal

[legendlegendlegend]

basically that lady was saying that the guy was not a she was not interested in that guy because he was just being an interview or asking her questions and what I'm saying is I'm like that with women are you know I don't know being funny or comedian cocky witty banter are having more substance or whatever it is that she wanted and I want to know what I can do to fix my personality to get it to being that guy that all women want it its funny and enjoyable to be around and witty and cocky and all that you and I could be into with her back and forth like she said its cetera?

[Assada]

First of all, your post is really hard to follow.

 

What you want to do, to get better with women, is treat them like they are your little sister.

-Now would you interview your little sister? No you wouldnt

 

I promise you, this is how you do it:cool:

[thelonewolflegend]

Problem is i never had a little sister explain how you do this? What do u do and how do u know when to do it?

[thelonewolflegend]

I treat women like my friends i dont have many female friends

[Assada]

Do you have a mother or an aunt or any female figure in your life at all?

[Satu]

For me it's all about how I feel in someone's company. Hard to do that online...

[legendlegendlegend]

My mother gave me treat women like goddess mentality

[FitChick]

You say two guys messaged you and that you are a funny guy. Yet you want to know how to date women. Are you bisexual?

[thelonewolflegend]

A WOMAN posted that i was quoting her

[Assada]

I feel like any good advice you get will not be used