Ready2DateAgain Posted December 30, 2014 Share Posted December 30, 2014 would make her want me,I am scheduled for a date on Monday after the New Years holiday ,we will meet for the 1st time but she mentioned the laws of pheromones have to be there,can anyone give me any advice as to how I can handle this situation ? Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted December 30, 2014 Share Posted December 30, 2014 Eat lots of Garlic .... Nothing to handle... just go an have fun.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ready2DateAgain Posted December 30, 2014 Author Share Posted December 30, 2014 Eat lots of Garlic .... Nothing to handle... just go an have fun.. are you serious ? lol Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted December 30, 2014 Share Posted December 30, 2014 The garlic part of the post was humor... you do know what pheromones are ? There is nothing you can do, it's a natural animal attraction.. just go and have fun.. if it happens it happens and no there isn't anything you can do to affect that pheromone attraction. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ready2DateAgain Posted December 30, 2014 Author Share Posted December 30, 2014 Eat lots of Garlic .... Nothing to handle... just go an have fun.. I heard there's pheromones spray for men Link to post Share on other sites
Mirages Posted December 30, 2014 Share Posted December 30, 2014 Her wording is pathetic. It is an easy out of the date to put such a disclaimer out front, prepare for high-maintenance... Pheromones are the topic of attractive, barely detectable smells between people. I don't think I'd be spraying AXE on me to satisfy such nonsense. Good luck. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
shet Posted December 31, 2014 Share Posted December 31, 2014 Pheromones are, like any form of chemical signalling, something from other species that humans have evolved away from utilising. We don't really make them, can't detect them, and don't respond to them. For example: if we could, one of the strongest indications it would communicate would be ovulation in women - and yet men are, famously, terrible at intuitively knowing when women are either on their period or at the height of their cycle. None of which matters anyway, she's just saying she wants you to click in person. Link to post Share on other sites
GemmaUK Posted December 31, 2014 Share Posted December 31, 2014 Go meet her after the gym and without washing. Pheromones are actually still important but it's not something you can force in any way. Natural scent is either attractive or not to the opposite gender. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
evanescentworld Posted December 31, 2014 Share Posted December 31, 2014 Maybe she has a dog called Ferro, and she wants to see if it moans when it meets you..... She sounds like a real ball..... Link to post Share on other sites
D.Mc. Posted December 31, 2014 Share Posted December 31, 2014 Hi Readytodateagain, What about your own 1st meet criteria? Don't worry so much about what she is thinking, if you've had good emails & telephone calls then just go forward with that same "chemistry". If the conversations were brief & basic, then she may be counting on some kind of physical attraction in person, before really deciding if she wants invest time in developing a RS with you. Her last RS's could have been purely physical with no emotional connection but great sex & that's what she's basing her "type" on? Link to post Share on other sites
Danda Posted December 31, 2014 Share Posted December 31, 2014 I wonder if pheromones are at all relevant to the way a person naturally smells (without any unnatural fragrances OR bacteria build up i.e. body odor). I have noticed that different humans seem to have their own unique scent, sans perfume or shampoo or anything like that. Like a very subtle scent to their natural dander, so to speak, their skin and scalp and such. It becomes stronger when they are sweaty and whatnot but it's also not the same thing as BO from bacteria build up in the armpit or something. Some humans' natural dander scent is very similar, as well, I've noticed. Probably has a lot to do with other things like diet, but I wonder how much of it is inherent. Link to post Share on other sites
GemmaUK Posted December 31, 2014 Share Posted December 31, 2014 I wonder if pheromones are at all relevant to the way a person naturally smells (without any unnatural fragrances OR bacteria build up i.e. body odor). I have noticed that different humans seem to have their own unique scent, sans perfume or shampoo or anything like that. Like a very subtle scent to their natural dander, so to speak, their skin and scalp and such. It becomes stronger when they are sweaty and whatnot but it's also not the same thing as BO from bacteria build up in the armpit or something. Some humans' natural dander scent is very similar, as well, I've noticed. Probably has a lot to do with other things like diet, but I wonder how much of it is inherent. That is what pheromones are basically all about. BO is different and down to bacteria lingering on old or not well washed clothes and excess sweat in a confined space...unless someone hasn't washed for a while of course. Anti-perspirant helps but someone can still smell like themselves and gorgeous with only soap and AP. Deodorant does not kick BO. Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted December 31, 2014 Share Posted December 31, 2014 I know that dogs love the smell of dead things......nothing better for a dog to roll around in the smell of a dead toad....personally i cant stand the smell of dead toad.......i would suggest on the date you concentrate on just being you......with no dead toad...smell like.....chocolate.....roll in that.....or apple pie....smear it on ...real estate agents say its the best way to encourage buyers for your house....apple pie or cookies...might work for her..... honestly....if the spark for her isnt there, she will let you know.....doesnt matter what her pheromones say...unless of course she is a dog.....then dead toad has that spark.........deb 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Danda Posted December 31, 2014 Share Posted December 31, 2014 I know that dogs love the smell of dead things......nothing better for a dog to roll around in the smell of a dead toad....personally i cant stand the smell of dead toad.......i would suggest on the date you concentrate on just being you......with no dead toad...smell like.....chocolate.....roll in that.....or apple pie....smear it on ...real estate agents say its the best way to encourage buyers for your house....apple pie or cookies...might work for her..... honestly....if the spark for her isnt there, she will let you know.....doesnt matter what her pheromones say...unless of course she is a dog.....then dead toad has that spark.........deb This forum would not be the same without you Deb. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
evanescentworld Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 She's said 'dead toad' so many times, I think I CAN actually smell it...... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 She's just saying she has to see if the chemistry is there. I guess she thinks if it's there, it will set off her pheromones. I'm lucky. What sets off my pheromones is good hot salsa. Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 She's said 'dead toad' so many times, I think I CAN actually smell it...... the power of repetition is probably more apt than pheromones dont you think..if he says choc chip cookies enough on the date ......he will probably smell just like choc chip cookies....gooey center ...melt in the mouth butter biscuit....warm and luscious straight from the oven...rather than...here it comes...dead toad.........deb Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 I'm not completely sure about pheromones, but humans, especially human females are very sensitive to a man's scent. I'm not quite sure what happened but I had wild sex with a girl not long after meeting her in person because my scent +cologne was driving her crazy. Link to post Share on other sites
TheyCallMeOx Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 The heck is wrong with people? "The law of pheromones?" Sounds like a Biology whackjob, to me. Personally, I'd cancel the date just from that. You can't really experience someone as a person until you date them, and if you're not interested in the person, you're not interested. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
EngnimaticResponse Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 Pheromones exist. We just don't use them in the same way as animals. It is what we speak of when we mention "Chemistry". Our body's way of telling if another person is genetically compatable. It is often why you can find "something" attractive about someone without being attracted to them. A personal example: I had a thing for my sister's bff. I thought she was cute, and she smelled amazing(chemistry/pheromones). After high school, I lived at home and worked a third-shift job while saving for college. One night, unknown to me, this girl and her mother stayed at our house. They used my bed since I was at work. I got home, after they had left, and limbed into bed. Well, mother and daughter are very similar, because the whole bed smelled of this girl. Neeless to say, it took me 2 hours to fall asleep. Figures. Finally get her in my bed, and I'm not there. Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 (edited) I had a male dog that would go absolutely banana's if there was a woman in the room that was menstruating....More than one and id have to lock him up in a room.. Eh, I dunno... Get a bunch of hundred dollar bills and wipe them all over yourself before the meeting..... Works every time... TFY Edited January 1, 2015 by thefooloftheyear Link to post Share on other sites
the tank Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 You should buy pheromone perfume Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 I know pheromones is mostly a lot of bunk. The original study on it concluded that just about any woman would develop pheromones from being touched enough by any man -- and that is not only wishful thinking but dangerous thinking and definitely NOT true. Being touched by a man you aren't already attracted to or have feelings for is repulsive to women. Now they have studies showing there's pheromones between dogs and people, too. Now, that I believe is definitely true for me, but it wouldn't be true if someone had a fear of dogs. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 I know that dogs love the smell of dead things......nothing better for a dog to roll around in the smell of a dead toad....personally i cant stand the smell of dead toad.......i would suggest on the date you concentrate on just being you......with no dead toad...smell like.....chocolate.....roll in that.....or apple pie....smear it on ...real estate agents say its the best way to encourage buyers for your house....apple pie or cookies...might work for her..... honestly....if the spark for her isnt there, she will let you know.....doesnt matter what her pheromones say...unless of course she is a dog.....then dead toad has that spark.........deb Absolutely true. And dogs will rub a toad no matter that it can actually make them sick later. A pleasant variation: I bought some flowery soup before Christmas and one of my dogs was trying to roll in it before I ever got it out of the bag! Yes! A big improvement! Now if only my dogs and cat would take a liking to something to improve their breath. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
shet Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 Pheromones don't exist in humans. We barely produce them and lack the organs and neural pathways to detect them. It's bunk science to sell things to gullible idiots. Think about it this way: if pheromones were a thing for humans, the biggest thing they would be for is indicating womens menstrual cycles. Yet men are famously, historically, culturally iconably, incapable of inferring that a woman is on her period or at the peak of her cycle. Link to post Share on other sites
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