LuisLuna Posted December 31, 2014 Share Posted December 31, 2014 We've been dating for like 2 weeks, yesterday i talked with her, i am still in love with her and i let her know that my intentions were not totally friendly. She said she wants to start again with me. In the time we were not together she dated another guy, yesterday she said that she told the other guy to leave her alone, because she wants to get back with me. She said that she doesn't feel right getting back with me so soon after dumping the other guy, she thinks people might get a bad impression on her, but it was a matter of time for us to get back together. What makes me doubt about this is that she never text me, or call me, or anything. When i text her she responds very simple and serious. Is that normal?? i mean, i know things are not going to be the same from the night to the morning, but how should i deal with this "start again" situation? Link to post Share on other sites
coolheadal Posted December 31, 2014 Share Posted December 31, 2014 Going to be different with the EX now then prior. She knows you better. So not on the same playing field. She can dump other BF so quickly. Don't think twice she can't do it to you again. If I was you play this cool and be at 100% alert status in your mind. Watch everything she said to you closely. If you have doubt about what she said let her know right away! Do she really love you or just she really misses being with you. They're different. Just because you love her, she might not be 100% with you on that. So she's now worried what others think about dumping prior BF for you so fast. That shouldn't matter if she's so serious about you as you are with her. Something is going on in her head/mind. But only she knows the answer to that riddle. Just very careful and don't contact her let she contact you. But make sure you don't give 100% in this new relationship. It should be 50/50 control not 100% control and she's calling the shots now, because she know how far she can push until you crack open. Link to post Share on other sites
erklat Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 You were dating for two weeks? How old are you? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
idoltree Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 You were dating for two weeks? How old are you? I think he means recently as part of the reconciliation/whatever is going on. Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 What makes me doubt about this is that *she never text me, or call me, or anything. When i text her she responds very simple and serious. Is that normal?? i mean, i know things are not going to be the same from the night to the morning, but how should i deal with this "start again" situation? What does that tell you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author LuisLuna Posted January 1, 2015 Author Share Posted January 1, 2015 You were dating for two weeks? How old are you? We've been 5 years together, but we have been dating for 2 weeks since the break up. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LuisLuna Posted January 1, 2015 Author Share Posted January 1, 2015 What does that tell you? I don't know, she was the one who brought the idea of getting back. Not me. She texted me yesterday on new years eve inviting me to her house, i went and we had dinner together, she even started calling me "hunny" "love", stuff like that, i think i may be paranoid... Link to post Share on other sites
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