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Are you still interested after this? Sounds like a bunny boiler to me.

 

All I can come up with is she wants a child and maybe her husband isn't willing. It makes no other sense that she won't leave but wants to get pregnant by you.

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Weird?!?! Crazy is the word that came to mind. Remember , if you have a child with this women, you are tied to her for life. Which if what you've described with you health wise, it might not be very long!!

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I'm trying to figure out while you are still engaging with this woman.

 

Why are you?

 

I am not engaging and want to run away as far as possible. To be honest this is the first time I felt really scared. The rage that she is demonstrating is something I've never seen in my life. I am not sure what is she capable of and am trying to come up with the way to leave this quietly. On the top of that we work together and it makes it even harder.

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By the way, do you support her financially in any way or buy her any exspensive gifts?

 

No I do not. I used to buy her gifts in the past but not anymore.

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I want us to solve issues first and then to think about having a child.

 

If you are not engaging with her, do not say things like this. It's leading her on.

 

Tip toe away very quietly with your eyes all around you.

 

She's a fruit loop.

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If you are not engaging with her, do not say things like this. It's leading her on.

 

Tip toe away very quietly with your eyes all around you.

 

She's a fruit loop.

 

I wrote this in a way to mean that generally in my life I want to provide my child with fair start. Anyway, she puts a wall whenever I mention anything about D. Am I crazy to think that she wants my child but does not want us to raise it together?

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"She isn't leaving her marriage, but she keeps making you think she will. Yeah she is playing you. '

 

 

Yes, this, but she is actually play both you and her BS.

 

 

I think she gets furious with you when you don't play the game anymore. Not to her liking anyway. She seems to get mad when she is not in control.

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I wrote this in a way to mean that generally in my life I want to provide my child with fair start. Anyway, she puts a wall whenever I mention anything about D. Am I crazy to think that she wants my child but does not want us to raise it together?

 

Honestly, what difference does it make what she thinks.

 

Don't give her Jack.

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