familygone Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 I guess this is a two part question, but i will briefly tell me story.. Been married for 4 years, and recently divorced.Have a 3 year old son. My wife and I did not have a perfect/amazingly passionate relationship, but I thought it was not bad. We were together every night, shared laughs, enjoyed raising our son, took trips etc. We enjoyed being together. She took a trip back home to see her family, and left our son with me. She returns and is different. Says she is not in love. Wants a divorce. Insists there is no one else. She now seemingly hates everything about me, and moved to the couch. She then takes another trip back home 2 months later, comes back and tell me she wants a divorce, is getting a lawyer, moving out, and taking our son. She also told me she has nobody else, but I cannot be mad if she is remarried within a couple months.. Slowly I found out about another man through phone records, talking to her family, and i also looked at her bank statement to notice a man wired her about $25,000. After doing some research he works offshore, and is a few years younger than her. I have went through a wide range of feelings, and we already went to court then a mediator. Right now, it is hitting me that our son will never have two loving parents to share his time with. This breaks my heart.. It will always be me alone with him, or her alone with him.. I still have to see my ex wife quite often due to exchanging the kid, and it is hard for me to get over this.. How do you move on from this resentment? Secondly, I know the 2 of them just met in July, and spent a week together, then more time chatting of course.. Right now my wife lives a life that he is paying for, and way above her head..She makes about 800 a month, gets some child support from me, but has at least $4000 a month in bills. How can she be so sure this man will now support her forever? And secondly, why would this man choose a 40 yr old woman with a toddler , who is cheating, to invest so much into? He does not have children. He wants to be with a woman who is a cheater, with child, and then be a step dad? It makes little sense to me. This guy really went out of his way to destroy a family, and I am wondering how he can be so sure that this was a good decision.. Sounds just like my story : Mine said to me she didn't think she love anymore. She turned on me basicly started to be angry towards me,wondering what did I do wrong. She lied to me .BLAMED ME even when the truth came out. Broke up this family just to cheat, I read this before.From other storys seems all the samething happens! Link to post Share on other sites
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