welshbambi Posted January 3, 2015 Share Posted January 3, 2015 OK, so this is a chance to describe your dream man or woman in life. Include physical and character traits if you can. DISCLAIMER: this is not aimed at anyone or to bring anyone down. In the same way as you might fantasize about being swept away by your favourite movie star or musician, you know that won't actually happen and you would not knock back a human being because they weren't like them! I just thought this could be a bit of fun to lighten the mood. So, here goes: Character Confident and cheeky, not to be mistaken for arrogance Not afraid to say how they feel, good or bad Considerate Able to see things from others perspective, compassionate Tactile Passionate Proactive and a problem solver Doesn't think the world owes them anything, works hard for what they have Appreciative of the simple things in life, that a surprise trip to see a beautiful sunrise is so much nicer than a thoughtless expensive gift Open about sex/high sex drive Physical Between 5'10 and 6'3 Good quality tattoos, the more the merrier Beard Not flashy (no gold chains or diamonds) Of medium build, not necessarily muscular/cut Brown or green eyes Ginger or black hair Penis (sorry, I know it doesn't matter to most but it matters to me) more than 6.5" in length and decent girth - this is dream guy after all! Or Luke Evans as Bard, Hugh Jackman as Wolverine, Tom Hiddleston in any way shape or form, or Tom Hardy as Forrest Bondurant Link to post Share on other sites
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 3, 2015 Share Posted January 3, 2015 (edited) Angelina Jolie, Jessica Alba, Christina Hendricks (or sub in any hot movie star) but with much bigger boobs and no fat and she stays at age 25 forever. Likes everything that I like. Thinks I'm hotter than Brad Pitt. Let's me hang out and get drunk and doesn't care. Has not a superficial bone in her body and is a super kind person. Has a father who loves me and who owns a company where I get a job where I only work 15 hours a week and make $200,000 a year. That was productive... Edited January 3, 2015 by JuneJulySeptember 3 Link to post Share on other sites
regine_phalange Posted January 3, 2015 Share Posted January 3, 2015 Handsome, deep velvety voice, strong beliefs, warm, erotic, no-nonsense. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
GemmaUK Posted January 3, 2015 Share Posted January 3, 2015 I'll play... In no particular order: Character Confident and cheeky, not to be mistaken for arrogance Not afraid to say how they feel, good or bad Considerate and takes responsibility for their own actions and their own part in things. Able to see things from others perspective, compassionate, empathetic. Tactile Passionate Proactive and a problem solver Has hobbies and interests of his own. Doesn't think the world owes them anything, works hard for what they have Appreciative of the simple things in life, that a surprise trip to see a beautiful sunrise is so much nicer than a thoughtless expensive gift Open and easy going about sex, having a willingness to listen and learn and be aware that different women like different things - not kinky stuff - just the normal stuff. Physical Between 5'6 and 6'0 No tattoos, no excessive body hair, just a natural smattering. Facially - Clean shaven or with some stubble Not flashy (no gold chains, diamonds or flashy cars) Of slim to medium build Short dark hair or bald/buzzed. Penis (sorry, I know it doesn't matter to most but it matters to me (and me too OP)) average sized is perfect for me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author welshbambi Posted January 3, 2015 Author Share Posted January 3, 2015 I'll play... In no particular order: Character Confident and cheeky, not to be mistaken for arrogance Not afraid to say how they feel, good or bad Considerate and takes responsibility for their own actions and their own part in things. Able to see things from others perspective, compassionate, empathetic. Tactile Passionate Proactive and a problem solver Has hobbies and interests of his own. Doesn't think the world owes them anything, works hard for what they have Appreciative of the simple things in life, that a surprise trip to see a beautiful sunrise is so much nicer than a thoughtless expensive gift Open and easy going about sex, having a willingness to listen and learn and be aware that different women like different things - not kinky stuff - just the normal stuff. Physical Between 5'6 and 6'0 No tattoos, no excessive body hair, just a natural smattering. Facially - Clean shaven or with some stubble Not flashy (no gold chains, diamonds or flashy cars) Of slim to medium build Short dark hair or bald/buzzed. Penis (sorry, I know it doesn't matter to most but it matters to me (and me too OP)) average sized is perfect for me. Thanks for playing! Link to post Share on other sites
insert_name Posted January 3, 2015 Share Posted January 3, 2015 Big knockers 1 Link to post Share on other sites
welder69 Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 It gets lonely on the road...in looking for mainly company...Just want something to talk to first Link to post Share on other sites
Ready2DateAgain Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 OK, so this is a chance to describe your dream man or woman in life. Include physical and character traits if you can. DISCLAIMER: this is not aimed at anyone or to bring anyone down. In the same way as you might fantasize about being swept away by your favourite movie star or musician, you know that won't actually happen and you would not knock back a human being because they weren't like them! I just thought this could be a bit of fun to lighten the mood. So, here goes: Character Confident and cheeky, not to be mistaken for arrogance Not afraid to say how they feel, good or bad Considerate Able to see things from others perspective, compassionate Tactile Passionate Proactive and a problem solver Doesn't think the world owes them anything, works hard for what they have Appreciative of the simple things in life, that a surprise trip to see a beautiful sunrise is so much nicer than a thoughtless expensive gift Open about sex/high sex drive Physical Between 5'10 and 6'3 Good quality tattoos, the more the merrier Beard Not flashy (no gold chains or diamonds) Of medium build, not necessarily muscular/cut Brown or green eyes Ginger or black hair Penis (sorry, I know it doesn't matter to most but it matters to me) more than 6.5" in length and decent girth - this is dream guy after all! Or Luke Evans as Bard, Hugh Jackman as Wolverine, Tom Hiddleston in any way shape or form, or Tom Hardy as Forrest Bondurant sounds like me Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 It gets lonely on the road...in looking for mainly company...Just want something to talk to first Do you have Siri? I think that's really sad. It sounds so uninspiring. And you probably have a tanned left arm but a pale right one too. Link to post Share on other sites
genuinelyloverly7 Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 (edited) It is like a vision board- crafting the dream you want to come real. So here goes… Goddess/Nature oriented spiritually- wants to live in the woods/nature mostly loves the heat, the humidity organic vegetable emphasis in diet, sustainable anything else dietarily sexual focus, sensual lover of life and foreplay calm, manages anger well ethics- human and animal rights, environmental concerns and life actions organized and focused on goals, yet not driven beyond reason by it generally happy, optimistic, warm, friendly smart, curious and excited about life and our world has a sense of humor, not too dark works hard, has goals, wants to work independently of the main-stream system like to switch power play in a subtle, sexy, flow of our life together open to swinging in some form, yet still focused on our relationship as paramount creative erudite, and thoughtful in his conversations knows how to and enjoys spanking outgoing but needs our alone time together sexy voice, and an ability to dirty/sensual talk like no other loves long hugs and neck kissing, deep tongue and light nibbles all over thinks I am the sexiest, sweetest, smartest, greatest woman ever wants kids, and will be a great parent could survive in any situation, and keep me alive too well defined muscles all over, and a nice well proportioned butt. muscles- strong enough to do everything our life together demands, and to make passionate love with me for as long as we can both handle it; stamina nice straight teeth, soft sexy kissable suckable lips, and a long dextrous tongue generally symmetrical, pleasing (to ME) features (I like many kinds of features; Tim Curry as Dr. Frankenfurter, Buddy Holly, Will Smith, Michael Jordan…) well proportioned body structure very little all-over-body hair hung to fit my specific bill… you get the drift? I like it 8+ in length, and wide enough to stop up my drain pipe. No hair on the shaft because then it gets stuck in my teeth I like big hands and long slender artists fingers, but this is just icing. Edited January 9, 2015 by genuinelyloverly7 Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 Character: Multifaceted intelligence Likes to communicate Tactile Highly sexual Has a passionate/creative slant A headstrong and rebellious streak Is capable of balancing emotions Thinks I'm sexy Has ambitions of her own Slightly low but seductive, feminine voice Physical: Height's not a big deal - anything up to my height (nearly 6' 3). Optimum would probably be 5'8 Dark/olive/light-brown skin tone Sharp, piercing eyes Thick thighs Boobs? .....medium-to-big is a preference but not too important! Round bum Definitely curly hair!!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 Character: Honest & confident; he means what he says and isn't afraid of saying it Ambitious; he has goals, priorities, ideals in life Intellgient; I'm not saying he must be Einstein's younger brother, but we need to be able to talk Tolerant; you don't have to like everything, but you shouldn't point fingers either throwing generalizations into everyone's face Good morals, common sense Responsible; I'd like to "share work" at home if I'll ever marry someone Loves to travel Loves animals; if he knows how to ride a horse and we could ride off into the sunset every once in a while that would be like icing on a cake Ability to endure classic music Physique: At least my size, which is no problem for the majority (I'm 5'3/1,60) A bit fit (thin but not bony) would be the ideal-minimum, totally fit with normally-sized muscles the ideal-maximum The rest I don't really care about. Any skin or eye color goes, it's each little detail that has to be harmonic. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Leticia Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 A man who is strong and can support me. Somebody who is not afraid of life and can be in control of any situation. Link to post Share on other sites
salparadise Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 Communicative, open, articulate Intelligent- 130 to 160ish Empathetic, giving, caring, reciprocal Loves cooking, good food and wine Likes jazz, blues and classical Sexual, sensual, submissive Strokes my ego without being obvious Good kisser, good... at making me feel like a stud Cute face, nice eyes, makes good eye contact Not fat, few extra is ok Taller than my ex- most are (somewhat optional) Doesn't look or sound anything like my ex Doesn't have the same first name as ... Doesn't rationalize, project or throw $hit like my... Doesn't ... Doesn't ... Doesn't ... Wasn't friends with... you get the picture Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 (edited) is this reality or a dream ill go dream a caring guy a white knight who recognises i am a white knightess.....i dont need saving i am already saved ill help him save a humanitarian with a strong spiritual side..... a passionate guy a human grut so physically strong has to be stronger than me, doesnt have to big on talking...i can bring that out..... honest just and into justice so ethically sound never prone to ridicule or putting women down intentionally able to cry and show emotion open sexually certainly being able to discuss sex with maturity and define boundaries and respect boundaries trustworthy loyal patient willing to walk a mile with no shoes because he gave his shoes to a homeless guy not got pissed off if i do that for a home4less woman about five 8 or slightly taller than me brown eyes....golden skin shy smile dark hair a soothing tone to his voice this is number one..... a no nonsense attitude flecked with compassion and understanding accepting of his flaws and of mine a listener a voice of reason and logic when i am needing to hear that voice.... a sense of humor assertive completely dominant goofy able to make me laugh and know when i need to laugh a love of adventure a love of discovery a love of animals and the world around him a love of cats and squid wanting to swim with sharks and build moats,or maybe a fall out shelter stocked with a years worth fo food..... hug trees because they are there to hug......one day they will all die someone who would love to exercise and walk with me amotivator a source of energy fro em to tap into and spur me on someone who wants to see what i can see..... a guy who makes me feel beautiful rather than a like a creepy whipped dog..... one who sees what is beautiful about me even if it means looking harder.to bring that beauty out to shine and feel safe..... a guy who is accepting of my past as i am of his whatever it might be a guy who loves words and people an intellectual who knows learning never stops a good heart a love of the bible an honest laugh an ability to break down a wall or two a guy who would never leave me to stand by myself in the face of an enemy, a guy who would not stand in front of me but recognise my worth to stand beside me through good and bad.....i can fight just as hard as he could or a leader who supports whomever is behind him ro beside him...a leader among men who isnt on a power trip...a dominant assertive male.... or the robot from lost in space...... or grut...from guardians of the galaxy...i just want grut..deb Edited January 9, 2015 by todreaminblue Link to post Share on other sites
Mysterio Posted January 10, 2015 Share Posted January 10, 2015 In no particular order this is what I have come up with. A single woman that is between 27 to 47. As long as we sort of look like contemporaries. Ethnicity. I really don't care as much. I am a black male. Height. Short or tall. I guess latley I have been on a short kick as they come off as adorable to me. She can be divorced. She has to be 100% single and I can't feel any friction from her ex at all within reason. I would prefer childless, but if she has one kid. I won't hold it against her. If she wants children with me. We really have to talk about it long and hard. Physically. As long as I find her attractive thats all that counts. I would want her to be groomed. Personality. Strong and Soft. I don't know what person to use in the media. I guess Betty from the Archie comics comes to mind. The girl next door than the glamour girl. Our relationship would be. Interesting Conversations and laughs. Lots of affection. Supportive and giving each other space. I also like a woman that dotes on me as well. I am not looking for perfection. I am looking and desiring a workable situation. I belive that it will happen. I just can't force it into my life. In other words. I have to wait for the universe to blow it my way. Going out there like a big game hunter and tracking it down is not going to work. When we are in each others presence. We adore each other. The bottom line for me is Two words. She is soft yet dynamic at the same time. Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted January 10, 2015 Share Posted January 10, 2015 Emotional stability. Smarts and drive. Spiritual. Educated. Charm. Banter. Sense of humour. Similar values. Close to his family. Patient. Perseverant. Authentic. True to his believes - stands up for what he believes in. Active - a do-er. Loves traveling. Wants kids. Wants to get married. Appreciates a challenging woman. Is not intimidated by my professional success. Tactful. Likes people. Enjoys art. Tolerant. Sensual. Erotic. A giver and a taker. Dominant in bed. Free thinker. Independent spirit. no to flake, irresponsible, womanizer, indecisive, unsure, insecure, lying, lazy, workahoolic, alcoholic, drug taker. Link to post Share on other sites
Timshel Posted January 10, 2015 Share Posted January 10, 2015 I'll use George Clooney as my prototype. However, not for looks, he's sexy to me but it's more personality. Smart Intellectual Charming/Gentleman Honorable Kind Sense of humor, funny, funny & funny. Not taking oneself too seriously Healthy Honest Attentive in bed/Passionate I am prejudice against pretty boys (perhaps incorrectly?) because I assume they assume I give a ****. Who cares. For me, it's always been from the inside out. Men that I really enjoy hanging out with. Link to post Share on other sites
Mysterio Posted January 13, 2015 Share Posted January 13, 2015 Timeshell. What is your take on Intellectual. So many people use this term. To me I really don't want a woman in my case to be such and egghead, that everything she says to me goes over my head and we are at the battle of the wits. Link to post Share on other sites
Timshel Posted January 13, 2015 Share Posted January 13, 2015 LOL, no, not at all. Being condescending is boring and not fun. I suppose I mean someone who thinks about things, forms their own opinions and doesn't just follow the crowd. Someone who is intrigued, curious and open to learning. It's funny, your right, I used that word but had to really think what I meant by that. Link to post Share on other sites
salparadise Posted January 13, 2015 Share Posted January 13, 2015 Timeshell. What is your take on Intellectual. So many people use this term. To me I really don't want a woman in my case to be such and egghead, that everything she says to me goes over my head and we are at the battle of the wits. Yea, this is tricky. I love smart women, in fact, it's a big factor in the attraction. The ones who are really smart and have emotional intelligence don't run around wearing it on their sleeve or try to be competitive, but it's apparent in many subtle ways that are far more beneficial in a relationship. My Jewish girlfriend from a few years ago spoiled me rotten- smart-smart and emotionally smart at the same time. No one else has come close in emotional intelligence. Link to post Share on other sites
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