AaronH Posted January 4, 2015 Share Posted January 4, 2015 I'm 17, and since I was about 11, I can recall my dad having many gf's that were always younger and usually attractive. My other siblings that were old enough can recall this too I'm sure. Now he's 56 and he's been with a 27 yr old woman named Rita for almost a year. They work at the same company too. They also just had a baby together too. It all happened really fast. She's just a plain looking woman, longer brunette, no makeup, pearly white teeth like a Julia Roberts, taller, just a very natural looking woman, nothing special at all. His last serious gf that he had a baby with was 2 years ago, again a woman from work, but a 22 yr old intern. She looked like Kristen Bell...very hot blonde! My friends would always ask if they could go to my dad's house and hang out if she was there lol. She got pregnant, her internship ended, they broke up and then got back together after she had the baby. I know my dad wanted to marry her, but she didn't want that and they broke up for good then. Last week, I was on my dad's laptop when he wasn't home and I found myself browsing through some pics which turned into private pics...aka pics from the delivery room from when Rita had the baby a month ago. The two that stood out featured her legs up in the stirrups and the other one was of her holding the baby, but also showed her legs still open and probably the hairiest crotch I've ever seen. This woman must never have shaved, because that wasn't normal. She literally had a second head of hair down there! I'm not a doctor or anything and know nothing about childbirth, but can't the baby get tangled coming out or have anything happen with so much pubic hair? I got flush looking at this. I told my friends and they thought it was gross, but for some reason I think its sexy. Now I have this interest in her and can't get her out of my mind. I can't even be around her without feeling the need to masterbate. My hormones are driving me crazy! All I can think about is Rita's bush and how I'm going to have sex with her. I know this is so wrong. Do I tell my dad? Do I say anything to her? Will it just go away with time? Link to post Share on other sites
TokeFox Posted January 4, 2015 Share Posted January 4, 2015 Haha, looks like you're in a tough spot. I was in almost that same situation when I was around 16. I was looking at my dad's phone and a message popped up, so I clicked on it. It happened to be my dad's girlfriend at the time showing her tits. Obviously there was nothing I could do about what I felt after that, considering she was 37 and I was 16. So I just tried to ignore my hormones the best I could when I was around her after that, and it worked. I eventually found a girl that I really connected with, we started dating, and we've been together ever since. I'm 19 now. My dad got married to that same girl last year. Now when we're together, I don't feel any awkward tension at all. And I have my girlfriend to thank for that. So with that being said, my advice is to just let it go and find a girl that's your age and attractive. Unless you think you have a chance of having sex with her, that's all you man lol. Just start having deep, intellectual conversations with her and see where that takes you. But if all else fails, just let it go and find yourself a girl that you really connect with. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Author AaronH Posted January 4, 2015 Author Share Posted January 4, 2015 Thanks for your advice. Do you think the full bush thing is sexy or no? It seems like so many of the women these days are all about the shaved look from what I read and hear. It seems rare to find one in her 20s who still hasn't taken a razor to it. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted January 4, 2015 Share Posted January 4, 2015 I honestly feel bad for you. It's really awkward when your dad is dating someone so young you're attracted to them, and I think your dad ought to hear it at some point so he finally gets it. I mean, she's closer to your age than to his, so of course, you're going to be attracted. No, don't say anything at all to her. But this is something your dad needs to be aware of just because he's bringing these young women home and it makes it hard for them to be parent figures when they're too young for your dad and closer to your own age. Sorry you're having to deal with this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AaronH Posted January 4, 2015 Author Share Posted January 4, 2015 Include the part on how I saw her private area? Link to post Share on other sites
Timshel Posted January 4, 2015 Share Posted January 4, 2015 Many women stop shaving when pregnant for the simple reason they can't see over the baby bump. You wouldn't take a razor to that area if you can't see what your doing. She may have gone back to shaving now and no longer is bushy. JS Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted January 4, 2015 Share Posted January 4, 2015 No, leave out all the part about seeing her privates. He'd be mad at you for that and deflect blame. But he should know you and your friends don't see her so much as a parental figure as someone hot. He should have thought about that before marrying someone half his age. Link to post Share on other sites
HorseLuck Posted January 5, 2015 Share Posted January 5, 2015 Thanks for your advice. Do you think the full bush thing is sexy or no? It seems like so many of the women these days are all about the shaved look from what I read and hear. It seems rare to find one in her 20s who still hasn't taken a razor to it. There are men attracted to body hair. And yes, those full bush ladies exist as well those who do maintenance but don't rid of the hair entirely. You can always tell your future girlfriend to let it grow out, lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AaronH Posted January 5, 2015 Author Share Posted January 5, 2015 - No, you can tell she has never shaved. - I don't think she's "hot" really, just very sexually desirable is more like it. - I wonder how sex is different with a full bush lady versus one that shaves? Link to post Share on other sites
AVarma Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 (edited) Lol and to believe I opened this thread expecting a true story. I need to get my head examined. Edited January 6, 2015 by AVarma 1 Link to post Share on other sites
melell Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 lol.I know this feeling. I think it is considered some sort of deviancy. I can get overwhelmingly turned on by the most messed up things. Link to post Share on other sites
AVarma Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 lol.I know this feeling. I think it is considered some sort of deviancy. I can get overwhelmingly turned on by the most messed up things. Such as.... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SpiralOut Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 Pubic hair grows back pretty quickly after shaving or cutting it. Unless it somehow grew all the way down to her feet, you can't say for sure that she has "never" cut it before. Link to post Share on other sites
Timshel Posted January 8, 2015 Share Posted January 8, 2015 Pubic hair grows back pretty quickly after shaving or cutting it. Unless it somehow grew all the way down to her feet, you can't say for sure that she has "never" cut it before. As a grown-a** woman who has had three children, I'll vouch for that. How long would it take a man to grow a full beard? 9 months or less? Ha Ha anyway, 17, super cute. Link to post Share on other sites
SJS Posted January 8, 2015 Share Posted January 8, 2015 Ha Ha anyway, 17, super cute. Well, school IS out! lol Link to post Share on other sites
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