Author liverpoolguy Posted January 6, 2015 Author Share Posted January 6, 2015 Yes, I have been having trouble coming to terms with things. As soon as my wife informed me, after trying to sort things, that she had had enough and wanted me to get another place, I stupidly? sent a text to my the other man's wife a few days back. It was crippling me to see the change in my wife's approach with her saying she has had enough. I emailed, due to my paranoid state, this other guys wife and asked whether or not her husband and my wife had been in contact recently. I didn't inform my wife about this text. This morning my wife texted me to say she wanted to speak. I phoned her and she informed me that the guy she had been having an affair with phoned her, number withheld. He stated that his marriage or recovery with his wife was not going well. He wanted to be with my wife. She apparently informed him that he is poison and to f££k off. He stated that he had been wanting to contact my wife for some time. Yes I respect my wife for telling me about this call. He apparently informed my wife that his wife had received a text message from myself. She asked me whether or not I had been in contact with his wife. I inoitially denied it and then told her the truth. My wife's words to me were 'how dare you lie to me'. Did i make a mistake hiding my paranoid text to this man's wife from my wife? In the meantime, my wife has phoned this man's wife to tell her that her husband had contacted my wife asking to be with her. Apparently this man's wife is now distraught again. What a mess! My head is everywhere. Yes I lied to my wife about the text - yet her behaviour after saying that she had had enough and wanted me to leave brought back memories from the past when I discovered about the affair. My wife has stated that i wait till pay day and then get a place of my own. Why didn't I believe her when she said that all ties were ended with this guy? Why did I text this woman asking the question about contact. Christ, if this would just end! Link to post Share on other sites
Spectre Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 (edited) Dude, I give you kudos. I'm not a violent guy, but I would of had to use every ounce of self control not to b*tch slap this woman if she said something like "how dare you lie to me" after everything she has done. The only mistake you are making is that this woman is not out of your life already. Don't worry about your texts to this other woman, you had EVERY RIGHT to inform her about her shady husband. Your wife is not trash, she is the thing other trash looks down upon with pity. Edited January 6, 2015 by Spectre Link to post Share on other sites
lolablue17 Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 (edited) As response to her audacity, accusing you with lies (Who does she think she is daring to ask you anything about anything?), Tell her that starting tonight, you are going to sleep IN YOUR BED, and she is very well welcome to try the spare room. Tell her that you had had enough of her audacity, and you don't want anything to do with her. Tell her that she is a cheater and a liar and she must never call you a liar while you're not. Tell her that she doesn't have any right to ask you about your relationship with the OM's wife, and as far as her concern, you might decide to be having an affair with the OM's wife and it's none of her business! Can you memorize this text and say it to her? Edited January 6, 2015 by lolablue17 Link to post Share on other sites
LadyLuck2014 Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Do NOT let your cheating, lying, low life wife bully YOU into leaving. She doesn't like that you're not all unicorns and rainbows after just having her heard of her sleaze bag behavior? Then tell HER sorry ass to leave. Link to post Share on other sites
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