travelingman999 Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 ok so update from today: ok so she came over today after picking our daughter up from school, our son was sleping when she got here, she has been sick but came in and sat on the couch I sat next to her and put my arm around her and she layed next to me like that for a bit, then I kissed her and she said what are you doing, I said there was nothing wrong with it, we kissed again and she said im so confused, I said what about? then I said she can tell me when she is ready. we sat on the couch for a bit longer then I got up to get her some water and she had move to the chair, we talked whole our daughter played then we got our son up. I asked if she was ok cause she was sick and wanted to know if she needed anything, then my daughter asked the same thing. she replied I should stay here so y'all can take care of me, and I said you can stay here and we would. she no she can't do that. then we watched a movie all of us, I sat on the other couch. our daughter had just gotten over lice, my ex thought she had found some so I offered to go through her hair, she said yes so she put her head in my lap while I went through her hair for an hour during the movie. after that I had cooked dinner, she asked if I had soup so I made her some soup and we all ate. then she left after that. she got here at 245 and left at 715. what do you guys think? Link to post Share on other sites
Author travelingman999 Posted January 6, 2015 Author Share Posted January 6, 2015 sorry this should have been first post: ok me and my ex were together 6 years, we have 2 kids, and we were engaged. we fell apart this past year and never really recovered, we had severe communication problem but I have seen where we went wrong and we have talked about it. we split in October, we don't have any problems, we are friends and split the kids evenly. all her stuff is still here, clothes etc. we have talked about her helping me box everything up but nothing has happened yet. she got with her current boyfriend a few weeks after we split, it was someone she knew since she was a kid. He isn't divorced yet but will be soon. She lives with her aunt and he also lives there for the most part. I ask her to do things with me and the kids and most of the time she comes, she has told her boyfriend that we will be friends and that's non negotiable. I started dating last month and she knows. this past Saturday I asked her to go with me and the kids to a kids play place and we went shopping for the kids using some gift cards they got at Christmas, then we went and ate at a restaurant. when we got back to my house we put the kids to bed and I told her I would walk her out. we got to the car, I told her I had a great time, she said the same. we had a good hug and I kissed her on the cheek, she kind of pressed into it so I looked at her and we pecked on the lips, she said I was being bad, I said no im not. then we kissed open mouth and tongue. then she said I have a girlfriend and I said that is nothing, your the one I want. and she is the only one I want. then we held hands and I said I wanted to do that all night, I kissed her on the lips for a few seconds and then she left. I don't know what to do, I need help. I don't want to push her away by being to forceful with anything but I want her back and its killing me!! she is very against cheating, she is also stubborn and not super open about her feeling at this time. please help! oh and im 34 and she is 30 Link to post Share on other sites
headinthecloud Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 What on earth are you two doing? She's cheating on her boyfriend with you and you're dating people when you're clearly not over your ex. Umm...hello...are dignity or integrity home?...can we speak with either of them, please? Take a step back and read your posts as if it were your son who posted it. What would you tell him? Please make a choice - you move on and limit contact with her or you get back together - but stop this "pretending" and deceitful behaviour before you both hurt somebody. Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 She is very against cheating? And when you kissed her you told her that there was nothing wrong in doing that? :laugh: I feel sorry for your girlfriend and her boyfriend. What a farce. Link to post Share on other sites
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