cptkurt Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 Idk what to do ls... I was helping a married woman have an affair..She just kind of walked into my life two weeks ago. Well my name got dropped the other day. I don't know how much the husband knows. I woke up to a car in my driveway at 230am. Kinda scared for my life right now. I need to tell her it's over with but it's too late at night right now tonrisk a text. Is there anyway to make this right? What do I need to do to be right again? Don need to disclose to the husband the full truth or deny everything and stop contact? Please help. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cptkurt Posted January 7, 2015 Author Share Posted January 7, 2015 Am I always going to be looking over my shoulder? This is awful. I blame her completely for this. Link to post Share on other sites
Poppy47 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 YOu should blame yourself as well. If you don't do it, you can't be blamed for it. Poppy 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Friskyone4u Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 Let's see if I understand this right? You were "helping" a married woman have an affair. I assume the proper translation to that statement is that you were putting your penis in her as part of your "help". Well, when you are a good Samaritan like that there can be some unpleasant consequences. It sounds like you think that the car in your driveway was her husband, which it could be. And if he was pissed enough to do that you are probably fortunate he stayed in his car. You have two choices here buddy. You can keep "helping" her. Or you can tell her not to contact you anymore. If her husband does contact you you should tell him the truth in a manner that makes sense and that you are not trying to present yourself as just Mr. Nice guy doing someone a favor. If you choose the first option , you probably won't get much sympathy here on this forum. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
GoldieLox Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 Am I always going to be looking over my shoulder? This is awful. I blame her completely for this. What?? It takes two to tango, my friend. Were you drugged when you were having sex with her? Were you unconscious? No? Then you are to blame for this as much as she is. Did you really think that she WOULDN'T sell you out to her husband? Think about it. He threatens her with divorce, or to kick her out, unless she discloses who her AP is. How's the bottom of that bus looking? Happens all the time. It's the risk you take when you engage in an affair. Link to post Share on other sites
FusionCutter Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 Idk what to do ls... I was helping a married woman have an affair..She just kind of walked into my life two weeks ago. Well my name got dropped the other day. I don't know how much the husband knows. I woke up to a car in my driveway at 230am. Kinda scared for my life right now. I need to tell her it's over with but it's too late at night right now tonrisk a text. Is there anyway to make this right? What do I need to do to be right again? Don need to disclose to the husband the full truth or deny everything and stop contact? Please help. The only person that can help you is yourself. And how you help yourself is you own up to what you did, and stop your bad behavior. You can't rely on your married woman to do anything for you or to make it right. Time to face the music. How you make it right is to stop what you're doing. Link to post Share on other sites
Rainbowlove Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 Idk what to do ls... I was helping a married woman have an affair..She just kind of walked into my life two weeks ago. Well my name got dropped the other day. I don't know how much the husband knows. I woke up to a car in my driveway at 230am. Kinda scared for my life right now. I need to tell her it's over with but it's too late at night right now tonrisk a text. Is there anyway to make this right? What do I need to do to be right again? Don need to disclose to the husband the full truth or deny everything and stop contact? Please help. I guess I'm wondering how you "help" a MW have an affair?? That just sounds absurd to me. You are involved with a married woman and knew she was married. No one duped you. You knew what you were doing when you decided to have sex with her. I spent a year after my affair with eyes all around me. I never felt safe. There are still days when I am spooked by the possibility of being attacked. It's a sucky feeling...but you did do it to yourself. Lay low. If you are threatened by him, go to the police. Regardless of what you did with his wife, there are still laws to protect people - even cheaters. Link to post Share on other sites
spanz1 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 i hear cancun is nice this time of year. You should take a 2 week vacation there...like right now. And stop screwing other men's wives too...you'll have a healthier life. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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