LuisLuna Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 (edited) My "ex" and i had a beautiful relationship that lasted for 5 years. The last few months of it, it started to be boring and there was not motivation. We decided to end the relation. Just two weeks after the broke up she started a new relationship with a guy that i knew had a lot of time flirting on her (A rebound relationship). She was never happy with him. One day i told her i wanted a second chance and she agreed, telling me that she had first to dump the other guy, thing that she did two days later. When i asked her if we could get back already she said she needed time to be alone, but then, days after that, she told me to move on, to get out of her life and never come back asking for a chance again, she said she was not feeling anything for me. I left and didn't call her for a month straight, until one day i went to her house without previously calling and she received me like if she was wishing for me to come, prepared dinner for me and we had a great night, and then she kissed me. Since then we have been having a great time together, we have been hanging out, we kiss and cuddle like nothing has ever happened. But sometimes i feel like if she isn't convinced at all. Sometimes i call her and end up saying "I love you so much" and she just says "me too", it's been days without receiving a single message from her. But then i go to her home and everything looks just fine. But then again she looks kind of distant sometimes when i am with her. I have told her that i want to know her true feelings about me, she responds that she really really loves me, but can't forgive herself for starting a new relationship so fast with another guy, she's not comfortably with herself. What should i do? Does she really love me? Edited January 7, 2015 by LuisLuna Link to post Share on other sites
Ieris Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 I think she is still pretty confused about what she wants.. I don't know why you broke up the first time but when people get back together with their exes there will be doubts on their minds and often things can feel different the second time around. Don't think too much and don't get too invested either especially if she's hot and cold right now. Personally I will use the time to prepare myself for things to go south... if it doesn't then great but if she decides it's not going to work then at least you've put yourself in a better position to handle things if you're dropped from Heaven again x Link to post Share on other sites
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