MindKandy Posted March 28, 2005 Share Posted March 28, 2005 I don't know what is going on with my ex, he calls me and acts like, "oh, I'm thinking about you, I'm calling you, yada yada," but than, he'll blow me off afterwards. I mean, he's in the military and in North Carolina right now. I wish I knew if his concern was geniune or not. I mean, the other day, he was saying, sexual things to me, wanting me to send him a pic of me, but I was like, oh, I have to see. No! He's not getting any sort of picture of me. He lost ALL rights on getting any sort of picture of me. He said something like, I have to show the guys what I have. He's shown his friends a pic of me, a really nice one, too. But than he said that his friend thought that I was pretty and wanted to talk to me, so I was like fine, and I talked to one of his friends for like five minutes. He's had me talk to two different friends of his, because they thought that I was pretty and stuff. I don't get it. I told him that when he comes home in three weeks that I want for him to come pick me up from work, wearing his uniform, so I can show him off, that I didn't care that I'd probably have worked a long day, look kinda ragged, as long as he came in his uniform. And he said, that he would only do that for me and his mom. (Before he was like, nah, I'm not going to do it for anyone, only for the Marine Ball). Yesterday, he was telling me that he missed home and couldn't wait to come home and be here, that he missed me. And he promised that he would call me today, on Easter. Well, he called at eight something my time, and he barely even talked to me. He put his two different friends on the phone and tried to make me talk to them. He said that I was being rude. He's the one who tried to force me to talk to his friends, when he said he would call me, talk to me. Than he was like, I'll call you back and he never called back. What the heck? He knows that something that I hate, when you say you'll call back and never do. Why bother saying it? What is going on with him? Link to post Share on other sites
magda Posted March 28, 2005 Share Posted March 28, 2005 He's not worth it. He's making that pretty clear. I say stop taking his calls. Link to post Share on other sites
clynn Posted March 28, 2005 Share Posted March 28, 2005 Sounds pretty jerky to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Breathe Posted March 28, 2005 Share Posted March 28, 2005 I don't think Marines can even wear there uniforms off base (unless rules have changed). Still... he is an "ex" and it seems he's taking you for granted and playing you. It's your decision to allow it or stop it. Tell him your concerns and see how he responds. Link to post Share on other sites
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