emotionsmessmeup Posted March 28, 2005 Share Posted March 28, 2005 ok...what do u mean by listen to ur instinct..... my instincts used to tell me...me and my ex will get married...but i was still insecure.. my instinct...what is my instinct and why is it not right... or am i confusing my instinct with my feelings...? INSTINCT...! what things around u, show u...msg comming from god? what does ur brain say without ur heart involved? ??? Link to post Share on other sites
greenhorn Posted March 28, 2005 Share Posted March 28, 2005 Your instinct will appear wrong to you only when you don't get to hear it in pure state, most of the times it gets adulterated due to our wishes or our desire of outcome. A pure instinct will always be true. Link to post Share on other sites
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted March 28, 2005 Author Share Posted March 28, 2005 but then noone is ever in a pure state! Link to post Share on other sites
greenhorn Posted March 28, 2005 Share Posted March 28, 2005 Yeah , exactly otherwise all of us would have listened to our instinct and never failed in life. Link to post Share on other sites
CurlyIam Posted March 28, 2005 Share Posted March 28, 2005 When you meet someone, without ever talking to that person of knowing her/his name, the feeling you get about her/him. IF you like that person, if you feel they're untrusting, the first sensation you get that has no reason. As for you and your ex, you convinced yourself to think so. Instinct is different, because you cannot doubt it. It's just a feeling you get. Sometimes it's stronger other times you're barely aware of it. But it is ALWAYS there. My instincts told me even before I talked to my ex that he was a player. That he was too found of fliring. After meeting him, I had proof that I was right. Some people are aware of the first impression they give and try hard to change that when they get the chance to talk to you in person. Still, I think that first impression holds valueble information. Just listen to yourself. Make an excercise. Look at people in the street and ask yourself how you feel them. Trustworthy? Untrustworthy? Backstabbing? Ruthless? Do the same thing when you're in a bar... it's fun... plus you may get to meet people during your little experiment. Link to post Share on other sites
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted March 28, 2005 Author Share Posted March 28, 2005 the first impression --- well that is actually always right! i can always tell by the first impression! so i do hv a strong instinct / intuition...haha Link to post Share on other sites
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