nguyener Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 Hey guise, My situation is kind of unique. I'm in high school and there is only ~7 months left till college. That being said, I'm willing to give this a shot. We were really close friends in freshman year. I'm sure she had feelings for me, but I didn't like her. Our relationship eventually decayed. I noticed she liked another person, and when she ignored me once, I just quit it off completely and ignored her back. But my ignoring was a lot worse. I was a real *******/ had a lot of problems that made me unsociable. Anyways, sometime later I realized how much I missed her, so I asked if she wanted to be "more than friends." She said no (I was still a loser, so) and that was that. Eventually she blocked me on facebook. I blocked her back. Fast forward until senior year, I'm a completely different, better person. I decided to unblock her, to my surprise she had unblocked me. I have a lot of things going for me now: accepted to an Ivy school, good reputation in school as the smart guy. I'm buff as well. She initiated contact with me over my acceptance, congratulated me and I wished her luck in her apply as well. (She didn't get it.) On the first minutes of the new year I Facebook friended her again and she accepted, and when school started I "put" myself out there by teasingly asking her if she wanted a Kiss (the chocolate kind.) We haven't said anything to each other besides that. How should I break the ice? We're both playing it cool for now, but that'll only estrange any possible relationship. I'm planning on just catching her with a girl friend and asking her friend "How are you?" and then "And how is your beautiful friend doing?" and from there just try to get as much conversation in, unless this is lamb to the slaughter lol. I'm pretty new to all this, so I would appreciate any help. Thanks in advance! Link to post Share on other sites
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