DavidJenkins Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 To start off my ex is one of the most stubborn girls you can imagine, she won't date just anybody out there, which makes it difficult. Our relationship was never one hundred percent smooth either, to say the least we had many problems going on in both of our lives at the time for it to really be as successful as we had hoped (such as depression, money, even she had a ongoing police report against her ex at the time), but with everything now cleared we could of lasted far longer than we had. In the coming months to now as I was in a relationship myself we started talking again, we never went as far as to meet up but we talked about the breakup and got closure from it, then from there we built back up trust between us to the point we were talking pretty often say everyday, even though a good percentage she seemed rather disinterested with whatever I said and became less forward. About a month and a half ago I became single again, in the past three weeks I've been steadily trying to get her attention by flirting with her and complimenting her more. It kind of differs from time to time, some days she's friendlier than usual, others she's bland and disinterested; This past Monday she opened up conversation by posting two selfies in chat, saying "This is my hair after 10 minutes curling xxxxxxxx" where I simply called her beautiful and flirted a bit, but it usually doesn't go more than 10 minutes a piece until we move conversation onto something else such as friends football or college. She's a flirt I'll give her that, but I need much more if I do need to create some interest about myself to her. More to the point I know personally she falls in love with a number of guys really quite easily, which doesn't help she's got a dating profile either, I have seen her use one daily talking to different guys, but that's something for me to overcome anyway. What's everyone's ideas? Link to post Share on other sites
evanescentworld Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 How about "give up now, because you're getting absolutely nowhere fast"....? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Invictus01 Posted January 9, 2015 Share Posted January 9, 2015 There is really only one way to build attraction - disappear. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
st peter Posted January 14, 2015 Share Posted January 14, 2015 evanescent world literally every post i see of yours is petulantly negative. stop taking out all of your bitterness on other people Link to post Share on other sites
evanescentworld Posted January 14, 2015 Share Posted January 14, 2015 There's a difference between realism and negativity. I am being realistic. Take a look at the OP's post, and comments by other members in threads I have posted in. perhaps it is not I who is negative. Perhaps it is you who is in denial. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted January 14, 2015 Share Posted January 14, 2015 evanescent world literally every post i see of yours is petulantly negative. stop taking out all of your bitterness on other people She's not negative, she's being realistic. Just because she doesn't say what people want to hear doesn't mean she's being bitter. If you have different advice say it, but don't be that guy who complains because not everyone is posting sunshine and rainbows. Unfortunately, breakups rarely involve either. Link to post Share on other sites
evanescentworld Posted January 14, 2015 Share Posted January 14, 2015 She's not negative, she's being realistic. Just because she doesn't say what people want to hear doesn't mean she's being bitter. If you have different advice say it, but don't be that guy who complains because not everyone is posting sunshine and rainbows. Unfortunately, breakups rarely involve either. Thank you Simon Phoenix, and just for the record, st peter, I am actually one of the least bitter people you could ever meet. happily married, in a stable relationship with little of my past to report as soul-destroying or depressing. I don't deal with my past that way. Link to post Share on other sites
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