whatamidoinghere Posted March 28, 2005 Share Posted March 28, 2005 I haven't posted in awhile. Nothing really to report until this past weekend. Hadn't seen him in three weeks. He asked me last Monday about going to Maine for the afternoon to shop Friday. And silly me, I agreed to go because I missed him, I met him in a hotel lot to leave my car there and he drove us up the rest of the way. Had a good time with him of course. We got back about 630, he asked if i was hungry and did i want to go inside and eat at the bar in the hotel. So we did. Three beers later Im feeling really flirty and buzzed and started making allusions to something potentially happening later that nite, like an idiot. He told me "NO - you made your point very clear in the beginning, and although I'd love to, you're not ready for that yet and you are not thinking clearly with three beers in you. You'll hate yourself right afterwards." So we walk out to our vehicles and I joked that I cant drive yet. He says "so I will get you a coffee and we will sit here until you are OK to drive home to your own bed". He got my coffee and we talked for three hours in the car until I felt fine to drive. The next day I spoke to him, he wanted to make sure I was fine and told me I lost my earring in his truck. I am so stuck... some days it doesn't bother me, other days I have issues with this situation. I keep telling myself he's not married... I don't know what the right thing to do is, especially after this. I figured he would have jumped on the chance to take advantage of the situation - which I will admit wouldn't have done me any good and I WOULD have hated myself right afterwards, and he didn't. I LOVE spending time with him... Link to post Share on other sites
newby Posted March 28, 2005 Share Posted March 28, 2005 oooh this is a tricky one! on first appearances it would seem he is being considerate, but maybe he is just a really really good player. also how considerate is it of him to ask you out in the first place? on the other hand maybe he is just trying to be a friend to you, but then he should realise that these things have to happen gradually. sorry, i dont know the rest of your situation so i could be wrong,but, if you ask me i think he is just a really really good player. stay one step ahead of him, dont ever see him again. Link to post Share on other sites
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