insert_name Posted January 16, 2015 Share Posted January 16, 2015 I disagree with this. A confident man is not threatened by a woman that initiates, but in fact respects her courage. I do understand your point of view. There are men that have given a negative reaction to such women, which in turn women stop initiating at all lest they are ridiculed. Personally, I would never think there is something wrong with the woman. If I'm not attracted to her physically and to her personality, then I'll respectfully inform her. If a woman initiates with a man, in turn he devalues and takes her for granted, the woman shouldn't blame herself for initiating. There isn't anything wrong with her method. The problem was the man for not respecting her. Considering how many guys there are that hate initiating I'm not convinced that this is such a common thing. Probably the girls all hitting on the small proportion of guys who love the chase so much because they are so successful at it that to them being hit on by a girl is unnecessary. Link to post Share on other sites
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