mawkij Posted January 12, 2015 Share Posted January 12, 2015 in short am a guy got dumped 5 weeks ago ...been 2 yrs... i loved her so much...proved that in all occasions...engaged a year ago ...were marrying next summer...was there for her more than i should...been so caring more than i should...acted clingy ,nervous,abused her emotionally some how mostly for the last two months after having very hard time at work and it intersected with her having the same pressure at her study...took her for granted as it wasn't in my dictionary we can even think of breaking...and suddenly am out she loved me so much....i made her cry a lot...she went for her parents advice and left me. first 3 weeks i begged and pleaded sent lette...flowers to her home ...said every kind of sorry and lets try again and puhleeeeeeease....she didn't answer was told she was crying most of the time...didn't answer any of txt,letters,calls...said every kind of sorry then she finally sent me that it will never happen for many reason,and the first reason is her parents opinion.... i love her understand i screwed but the good things were way more than the bad moments... i want her back want to apologize and treat her better i believe we can restart i believe in our love cuz it was unconditional...we had many obstacles and we were strong and insisted... now i disappeared since 1st of jan ...and want to give 2nd try ... before i went to no contact i saw her facebook page full of new cheerful pics with friends ... adding many new guys to her list ... just back single in like 2 weeks as if the 2 years never happened. i do not if this act is on purpose she knows i will see that.. i want her back tired of thinking she loves me i am more than sure please don't tell me to move on....cuz i believe that she will be back Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted January 12, 2015 Share Posted January 12, 2015 What you say here makes it plain that it really is over. Your behaviour since the split makes it even more certain. In my opinion, your behaviour is suggestive of Limerence. Link to post Share on other sites
Ieris Posted January 12, 2015 Share Posted January 12, 2015 It all seems very one sided, it's all about what you want and what you need. How about what she wants? I don't know your full story but usually when parents interject, they are protecting their baby and you can't argue against that. Ask yourself this, if she is happier without you in her life, will you let her go? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author mawkij Posted January 12, 2015 Author Share Posted January 12, 2015 she seems happier ,her bff told me she loves you more than you can imagine and still. I told her I ll be there for her whenever she needs me as I will never stop loving her I just cant. and sorry her parents interfered for other reasons (they are afraid of her marrying during her study) their first suggestion after the breakup was to postpone the wedding one year and I refused. they are not protecting their baby they are just scared and she got so pressured at study and got scared she wont be able to cope. like any parents they are so scared of the future...but they never interfered when she was holding on and happy with me ...the moment they felt she is unsure they interjected. yeah I love her so much but am not limerent...she loved me more ..she never slept without talking to me for an hour or more...we spent 29 months together never had a fight that lasted more than 10 minutes...she was more than happy...we planned everything together I will not list but it was real love believe me. Link to post Share on other sites
Marco Valerio Posted January 13, 2015 Share Posted January 13, 2015 I do think too it's over. You should forget about getting a second chance, and should focus of getting over it. Let her be, she has a right for it. Link to post Share on other sites
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