Anxious, & depressed..

[whatatangledweb]

Did he leave and sit in the parking lot all that time? If so why would it take that long to charge his phone. What was he depressed about, you or his family?

 

One night a week that starts at midnight...that would make me feel used. It is like he sneaks out after everyone is in bed. You deserve better than that.

[sandylee1]

OP

 

I urge you to get some help. Reading your posts is so sad.

You need to:

 

Start valuing yourself

See yourself as beautiful ( I'm sure you are)

Realise that you deserve better

Believe that deserve better

Do some good things for yourself (hairdo, makeover, New clothes)

Get the confidence look in the mirror and love what you see

 

 

I would LOVE to be a size 10. It would be my dream.

 

Own your body know that you can get a single man who would love every bit of you.

 

Don't let yourself continue to be a dirty little secret.

[anika99]

So.. first to update on the last post, we talked everything out and he clarified that by the *big flirt* comment he only meant that he likes to tease/make jokes, etcc.. I informed him that I looked at flirting as "fishing" which he wholeheartedly denied and said we had two completely different definitions of the word. He said some really kind words, and we hung out a bit after work last nite and talked until 2 am. Today was a really good day at work as well, we had awesome chemistry all day and had a bunch of laughs together... Now this: ?

 

MM always comes over one nite per week, usually around 12, and stays til 2-2:30. He said he was coming over early tonight (9:30-10) and it's now 10:40 and I haven't even heard from him. He's never *not* texted if he was going to be late. UGH!!!!! I texted him at 10:20 and he hasn't replied. I can see on the facebook app he hasn't been online in 2 hours, so he may not have his phone on him but wtfs? Go pretend to take a crap and take your phone into the bathroom so I'm not sitting here wondering, I can't deal with this sh*t right now. I feel like eventually he's going to text me tonite, and say he's sorry some BS came up. I literally feel sick. I feel like I'm gonna puke right now.

 

If he does text me at some point and plans to come over, do I flip out- even though we usually hang out much later? Do I say forget it gfy (even though I reallly want to see him)?

 

Why do we become so addicted to these f heads? My logical brain knows that there are roughly 4 billion women on the planet that are happy and functioning w/o this particular MM, why can't I be?

 

I just cannot understand what you like about this situation or find attractive in this man.

 

 

How old are you? Have you never been properly courted by a man? Your boyfriend sneaks out to see you at midnight once a week and then sneaks back home two hours later still under the cover of night. How is that not a huge turn off? When I meet a guy I like and who also claims to like me I expect to be romanced. We go out on dates in the evening of often in broad daylight on the weekends. Some married guy asking if he could sneak over to my place at midnight wouldn't get anywhere with me. I would offended if any man thought he could treat me like that.

 

 

Do you normally stay up until 2:00 AM on a work night or are you sacrificing your sleep just to accommodate this loser man who is treating you like a booty call. You have only been seeing this guy for 4 months. If you can't see this for what it is and pull the plug then you need counselling.