want him back

[Mandy26]

Hi,

so I was with a man, 46, I am 44. He dumped me via text after months of me pulling back and not responding to him when he would bring up. Then the big blow up when he had dinner with his ex fiance and I asked him if he told her that he was in a relationship. He said no, I told him off. See this has been an outstanding issue, as she was trying to get back together with him since we got together, Then he has a female friend(who is friends with her) that he keeps in touch but wont tell her that I exist because as he puts it, It will change their friendship and she helped him out when he and his ex broke up and it was very difficult for him, He said it is difficult to have a friendship with opposite sex and he did not want it to change because he tells her he is with someone. So now I have had 4 months after break up and am thinking maybe he was right, that I made too much of a big deal. I have been really down about him the past two days and looking for some feedback and support because I have been stuck on this for the last two days crying and decided to write here because I was about to email, text him etc,

[d0nnivain]

You are just blue & feeling lonely. Getting him back isn't the answer. He wasn't all that & you made the right decision letting him go.

 

Do something else to elevate your mood then work on finding a new happier more fulfilling relationship

[Mandy26]

You are just blue & feeling lonely. Getting him back isn't the answer. He wasn't all that & you made the right decision letting him go.

 

Do something else to elevate your mood then work on finding a new happier more fulfilling relationship

 

Thanks I know you are right, I was just questioning myself because he had introduced me to all his friends and family but not to let them know. He said I was making a big deal of nothing and that I didnt trust him. I was stuck and second guessing myself of what is right, and that it wasnt about trust. I guess I am very lonely and blue thanks for your response and support.