Illusion24 Posted March 29, 2005 Share Posted March 29, 2005 I had an interesting conversation with my friend, Lozano, about finding someone you "truly" love...He made a comment that made me view my perspectives in love completely different then the way I do now and it explains why I feel the way I do about being in love more than once....(so I think it was love) He looked at me and said (with those gorgeous eyes)..."Did you know that everyone has 3 soul mates...and 2 people they truly fall in love with"?? I looked at him and kept quiet...He just F*cked up my world...Do you think this is possible or is he crazy??? Link to post Share on other sites
hopelesslife Posted March 29, 2005 Share Posted March 29, 2005 I have been in love with two different people at the same time. It was difficult to think about it now but I loved them both in different ways. About the three soul mates so far I can honestly say I've only met one. She was great and till this day we talk and say one day we'll be back together Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted March 29, 2005 Share Posted March 29, 2005 What does that mean exactly? What is the difference between a soulmate and a true love? Link to post Share on other sites
FolderWife Posted March 29, 2005 Share Posted March 29, 2005 He's crazy. There are no RULES as to how many people that you can love. It's all about your and your love capacity. I had boyfriends, and I gave my ALL to the relationships, and I LOVED them, but they didn't love me enough to make it work, and just broke up with me. It happens. I don't beleive in sould mates either. Three soule mates...according the the theory of "soul mate" you can only have ONE, because you share a SOUL....which is so stupid. People are people. We live and we love. We don't share souls. Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted March 29, 2005 Share Posted March 29, 2005 Originally posted by Monday We don't share souls. OR Toothbrushes.. because it's just wrong So what are you to Lozano? (I just like saying that name!) The heart is capable of loving many... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Illusion24 Posted March 29, 2005 Author Share Posted March 29, 2005 He's an old friend that I've known for 10 years and always has some type of connection but never took it to the next step...It's a long story..But now that I think of it...I think it was the weed talking...I don't know but he sounded so serious...at least the part that you can love 2 people... About the soul mates...I agree theirs only one out there but who knows Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted March 29, 2005 Share Posted March 29, 2005 Originally posted by NeverSayNever But now that I think of it...I think it was the weed talking.. WEED Makes all the convo's in your life seem so deep.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Illusion24 Posted March 29, 2005 Author Share Posted March 29, 2005 WEED Makes all the convo's in your life seem so deep.. Come to think of it...that was only the first part of the convo...lol Link to post Share on other sites
EC Posted March 29, 2005 Share Posted March 29, 2005 Ive heard this before...but I heard it like this..... You meet the first one and you learn to love, you learn self sacrifice and then you learn heartbreak. The second one..you learn to really communicate, you learn what you like and don't like about partners, you grow together a bit. Then the third is when its just right.... Thats just what I heard anyways but it kinda makes sense. But its more like number 1, then 23456789 then number 2...............lol Link to post Share on other sites
Author Illusion24 Posted March 29, 2005 Author Share Posted March 29, 2005 But its more like number 1, then 23456789 then number 2...............lol EC, the s*** you think of...lol I've been in 2 serious relationship...the 3rd I guess is yet to come...so damn their is hope for me Link to post Share on other sites
EC Posted March 29, 2005 Share Posted March 29, 2005 I've been in 2 serious relationship...the 3rd I guess is yet to come...so damn their is hope for me What I said was all in theory of course...but for now if your not happy with number 2 then dont hang on waiting for number three..know what I mean. This also has no connection with this thread but I read a cute quote today about cheaters!! " If your going to cheat think about this..You may be leaving a diamond to find a bunch of rhinstones so think about it! " Ok I'm done. Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted March 29, 2005 Share Posted March 29, 2005 Originally posted by EC Ive heard this before...but I heard it like this..... You meet the first one and you learn to love, you learn self sacrifice and then you learn heartbreak. The second one..you learn to really communicate, you learn what you like and don't like about partners, you grow together a bit. Then the third is when its just right.... Thats just what I heard anyways but it kinda makes sense. But its more like number 1, then 23456789 then number 2...............lol Wow for real? ::Merin got ripped off:: The first one I really liked.. uh a lot.. loved him but wasn't in love with him.. I did learn sacrafice but that was before I learned the name of a good divorce attorney.. heartbreak.. not for me I don't miss him. The second one.. communication.. we communicated with argument and accusations it was a warm and fuzzy kind of thing... I did learn what I didn't like about him though.. I learned I didn't like him enough to keep the relationship... The third one.. hmm.. I'll get back with ya'll how he turns out NSN... weed.. deep conversations... Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted March 29, 2005 Share Posted March 29, 2005 Oh sh*t I've been in 3 serious relationships. Crapola! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Illusion24 Posted March 29, 2005 Author Share Posted March 29, 2005 It's generalization...I'm in a very happy relationship but what I'm trying to say is if this doesn't work out...I have hope that someone else could possibly love me Merin...tooky for you... Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted March 29, 2005 Share Posted March 29, 2005 Originally posted by NeverSayNever It's generalization...I'm in a very happy relationship but what I'm trying to say is if this doesn't work out...I have hope that someone else could possibly love me Merin...tooky for you... LOL Don't worry at all Girl IF this one doesn't work out for any reason of course someone else will love you! Link to post Share on other sites
EC Posted March 29, 2005 Share Posted March 29, 2005 Crap everyones counting how many serious relationships now lol...I have 5 no wait two don't count..I'm in the clear lol Did you have to have sex to make it a serious relationship? You see now its just all complicated... Weed does that too..deep complicated conversations in which you begin talking about relationships and end up figuring out the 7 mysteries of the world. (molecular activity) LOL NSN! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Illusion24 Posted March 29, 2005 Author Share Posted March 29, 2005 But anyways...Love is funny, no one ever has the answers...I think we should all just get together and smokey tookey for those of you who don't my BAD!! Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted March 29, 2005 Share Posted March 29, 2005 I was talking to my friend yesterday night and he paused for like 45 seconds after I said something and he said "You are really stoned right now, aren't you?" Ooops.. Link to post Share on other sites
EC Posted March 29, 2005 Share Posted March 29, 2005 Another way to look at it.. Number one..You were a virgin..didn't know what sex was..you were somewhat introduced to it.... Number 2...Your like sex ooooh this is what sex is and you use him for practice..... Number 3...Your a Professional Foker and your upside down in a handstand position, handcuffed and blindfolded screaming 'Ay Papi' See its all a cycle. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Illusion24 Posted March 29, 2005 Author Share Posted March 29, 2005 he paused for like 45 seconds after I said something and he said "You are really stoned right now, aren't you?" That is so true...when you're high everything is so deep in thought and sometimes you get lost and you just look at each other and realize "damn I f*cking stupid, what the f*ck is up with me...Damn this weed is good as f*ck!!!!" lol Sorry for the RR words Link to post Share on other sites
djones Posted March 29, 2005 Share Posted March 29, 2005 Hey Gang, I saw this post and I was thinking, most people had several relationships and say that they loved that person. We say that word love... how do you know that love you have for that person will carry on to say long term or marriage....I guess I trying to find how do you know that this person is your soul mate or what ever... Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted March 30, 2005 Share Posted March 30, 2005 For me, love really is only something I can honestly say I feel about someone after months of being with them. After going through hardships and coming out ok in the end. At first, it's chemistry and lust and fantasy. The first person I loved I never did tell. The second person I told him after about 7 months of being with him. The third person, I broke up with him 4 months into the relationship when he said he was falling for me, then we got back together 8 months later and I said I loved him about 4 months after we got BACK together. For me, it takes a loooooong time, and a lot of shared suffering and going through a lot of good and bad times, to really say that I honestly love someone. Then, once that happens, they have a piece of my heart and always will. Link to post Share on other sites
djones Posted March 30, 2005 Share Posted March 30, 2005 Hey Blind_otter, I feel exactly like you it takes me a long time to say I love someone.....I told my 2nd GF that I loved her and she did not tell me the same back......My current relationship just ended b/c of her schedule and prior to that we were getting close but she could not deal with everything and could not put time into our relationship....So she broke it off with me by saying lets just develop our friendship and just leave it up to her to contact me b/c she is under so much stress with Her school and work and her company...so I guess I just have to wait.....Sorrry I just had this bottled up inside me and I have to get this out off my chest.... My question to you Blind_otter is that you said your Last BF you broke up and got back together after a few months, did you know you still loved that person after or was it like you have to try it again (the relationship) before you knew it? Link to post Share on other sites
djones Posted March 30, 2005 Share Posted March 30, 2005 Hey Blind_otter, I feel exactly like you it takes me a long time to say I love someone.....I told my 2nd GF that I loved her and she did not tell me the same back......My current relationship just ended b/c of her schedule and prior to that we were getting close but she could not deal with everything and could not put time into our relationship....So she broke it off with me by saying lets just develop our friendship and just leave it up to her to contact me b/c she is under so much stress with Her school and work and her company...so I guess I just have to wait.....Sorrry I just had this bottled up inside me and I have to get this out off my chest.... My question to you Blind_otter is that you said your Last BF you broke up and got back together after a few months, did you know you still loved that person after or was it like you have to try it again (the relationship) before you knew it? Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted March 30, 2005 Share Posted March 30, 2005 Originally posted by djones My question to you Blind_otter is that you said your Last BF you broke up and got back together after a few months, did you know you still loved that person after or was it like you have to try it again (the relationship) before you knew it? Sorry about your recent troubles.... I had to try again. It was a year after he told me he was falling in love with me that I finally told him I loved him, too. And then everything went down the sh*tter. But for a while it was ok. Link to post Share on other sites
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