skinut2234 Posted March 29, 2005 Share Posted March 29, 2005 My wife has a new friend- She is little on the wilder and crazy side but has a positive effect on my wife- She is always in a good mood and enjoys hanging out with her. She is also married but does not talk about her husband very much. We've gone out together (3 of us) for drinks every now and again and we always have a good time.... I send an email to her the other day just busting chops- my wife knew about it and thought it was funny. She was playing along. Since that first email- we've been going back and forth via email joking around- Some of the emails had some lets just say "suggestive" tones and some funny innuendos. We both actually were getting a kick out of it and even emailed each other that it was fun - and innocent- I'll admit I started most of it for kicks and she played along. It felt good but I do not want her to get wrong idea since she is good friends with the wife- I kinda put a stop to it saying in a funny way that she (the wife) woudl probably not think too kindly of the emails and she agreed. Any advice- or anyone ever in a similiar scenario? Link to post Share on other sites
jmargel Posted March 29, 2005 Share Posted March 29, 2005 You did the right thing. If you had a male friend and your wife was emailing him like this, I think you would probably get upset? Each relationship must set boundaries that they don't cross. Those boundaries are different from couple to couple. I would think any kind of flirtatious emails should also have your wife included if you guys like that kinda thing. Otherwise keep it toned down. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted March 30, 2005 Share Posted March 30, 2005 It depends on what kind of advice you seek; how to get the friend into your bed?With or without your wife? Link to post Share on other sites
Lolla Posted April 1, 2005 Share Posted April 1, 2005 Not a road to cross, the do not enter sign is permanently affixed :-) Link to post Share on other sites
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