C00l0g Posted January 18, 2015 Share Posted January 18, 2015 I met this woman at work who I'm starting to really like. She is older then me like by 5ish years and has 3 kids. She lives with a guy but she is not married and she told me not in so many words she is looking for someone else. She is a very nice person and always brags about how well she get along with everybody. She opened up quite a bit to me about her life and we text on and off I usually get quick responses. She initiates communication a lot of the time and the big thing for me is she pretty much lets me touch her anywhere and for as long as I want (example arm around her walking down the hall, hand on her lower back etc) get pretty good eye contact and when we stare at each other for a few secs she will break eye contact then rein gage in a few secs later and smiles frequently. The only problem I have is I called her out (not yelling or anything just telling her how I felt) on only texting one or 2 word responses and that sometimes she would only talk to me when it was convent to her since she recently moved positions at work. She said she was hurt I would think of her like that and I guess I didn't know her as well as I thought. I apologized and she said it was nothing like that so it seems like water under the bridge. I'm not sure if she likes me or not and I really wanna hangout with her outside of work to see if there's any signs I can pick up on to see if I can take this relationship further (ultimate goal would be a friends with benefits type thing) . I jokingly ask her once we should hang out and she said sure but I didn't jump on it. Any advice on what my next move should be? Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted January 18, 2015 Share Posted January 18, 2015 In triangular relationships, all three parties get hurt. If its pain you want, go for it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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