jake2495 Posted January 18, 2015 Share Posted January 18, 2015 Hi So me and my ex girlfriend broke up like 3 days ago, she said at the time that we will be best friends and that we can still hang out and do things together as friends. she then said that she was 99% sure we would be back together she just needed some time to 'let her hair down'. she then text me yesterday to say that 'we need some time apart' and that 'the feelings wont just go away' so what im getting to is is there any hope for me and her to get back together in the near future? Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted January 18, 2015 Share Posted January 18, 2015 Let her have that time apart. What happens after that is unknown. Focus on yourself. Do things that are good for you. Catch up with friends. Exercise. Read some books. Learn something new. Visit a new place. Make a new friend. Invest in yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Light Breeze Posted January 18, 2015 Share Posted January 18, 2015 You may or may not reconcile with your gf in the future, only time will tell. What, however, is important, is NOW. She does not want to be with you. Yes, she has feelings, but, not enough to stay with you. Therefore, you move on and heal. To do that you have to go No Contact (please read this: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/470829-all-new-2014-no-contact-guide). Link to post Share on other sites
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