Getting your foot in the door

[angel.eyes]

Why do you think you're shot down across the board by all women? It can't be your childlessness if childless women are also refusing to date you, right? What do you think is going on?

 

You mentioned height. How tall are you?

 

How often are you asking women out?

 

I'm also not understanding the reluctance to ask women out in real life, especially since you're so unhappy with your efforts at online dating? Is it shyness? Fear of rejection? Help us understand your reasoning around this.

[M_Theory]

Why do you think you're shot down across the board by all women? It can't be your childlessness if childless women are also refusing to date you, right? What do you think is going on?

 

I live in a suburb area....its pretty much impossible to find a woman near my age without kids. Women around here never went to college, they graduated HS, got married and pregnant, and raised families. Now they are divorced, with kids.

 

Metro areas are complete opposite. They have single, independent women with no kids, because they all focused on college and careers first.

 

You mentioned height. How tall are you?

5' 8".....but most women that are 3-4 inches shorter than me have told me I'm not tall enough.

 

How often are you asking women out?

Probably once or twice a week on the dating site if I see a prfoile that catches my eye.

 

I'm also not understanding the reluctance to ask women out in real life, especially since you're so unhappy with your efforts at online dating? Is it shyness? Fear of rejection? Help us understand your reasoning around this.

 

Believe it or not....majority of women do not like to be approached by strangers in public settings. Take a poll of women you know, you'll be surprised at the results, as long as they are honest, and think realistically, instead of thinking of some hot stud approaching them.

Edited January 19, 2015 by M_Theory