erika2610 Posted February 7, 2007 Share Posted February 7, 2007 Why are people still posting on a thread dated 2005? Link to post Share on other sites
Sup Posted February 7, 2007 Share Posted February 7, 2007 I read many posts on these forums but haven't posted in awhile. Yes, she is gone. I told her I wanted a divorce in Sept. and she has been gone for three months now. I still feel an incredible amount of anger toward her and realize it is hurting me more so than her. I do believe that she still had a "thang" for her ex. when she married me and I could never overcome that. Hell, what man (or woman) could. Anyway, her ex. is now remarried and she is alone. We have no kids together but she has three of her own. Man, it was so f*cking selfish of her to do what she did, not just to me, but to her kids. I'll be alright if I can just kick this nasty little Vicodin habit that I acquired through all of this sh*t. At least you kicked one BAD habit out of your life. Have you contacted a Lawyer against this counselor? At least see if you have a case. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted February 9, 2007 Share Posted February 9, 2007 Why are people still posting on a thread dated 2005? The original poster of this thread just posted the other day... Link to post Share on other sites
dsancious Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 My wife and I have been separated for 5 months now but are still seeing each other. I continue to abuse Vicodin, Suboxone, and alcohol (I hadn't drank for almost 10 years until 2 weeks ago). I know I am just a wreck waiting to happen. I am truly one f_cked-up individual. And I still believe that she has a "thang" for her ex. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 D, get some help buddy. Get some one on one counselling, and go to AA. Don't let her RUIN you! Fix yourself, get well again and then deal with her. Link to post Share on other sites
Sevenmack Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 Whichwayisup is right. Your drug habits are going to get uncontrollable. My suggestion is to get treatment now. Meanwhile, get the divorce and stop talking to your ex. Let your lawyer do the talking for you; that's why you hire them in the first place. All the best to you. Link to post Share on other sites
mrmaximum Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 My wife and I have been separated for 5 months now but are still seeing each other. I continue to abuse Vicodin, Suboxone, and alcohol (I hadn't drank for almost 10 years until 2 weeks ago). I know I am just a wreck waiting to happen. I am truly one f_cked-up individual. And I still believe that she has a "thang" for her ex. Get help for the substance abuse, this will only make things worse. The first step however, is to amputate your ex from you life, she doesn't need to be with sucking off your life force anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
mike7070 Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 Geez man......forget your wife.....you're your biggest problem! Obviously you've been here before "I hadn't drank for almost 10 years until 2 weeks ago" You know the drill.....get help! When you get straight....divorce.....not because she cheated......but because there's no love between you. Then get some conseling, so you can make a better choice in a mate. Link to post Share on other sites
Glass Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 My wife and I have been separated for 5 months now but are still seeing each other. I continue to abuse Vicodin, Suboxone, and alcohol (I hadn't drank for almost 10 years until 2 weeks ago). I know I am just a wreck waiting to happen. I am truly one f_cked-up individual. And I still believe that she has a "thang" for her ex. What do you mean by still seeing each other? Do you not want to get rid of her? I can understand if you are going by for the kids. I don't think you are f- up. I think you are hurt by her infidelity; but that has no bearings on you and the person you are. You deserve alot better than alcohol for relief. If you continue with your destructive mentality, you will be what you most fear you have become. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 I figure you want to know the details of - not why it happened and what led to it - but who called whom, when, what she told you she was doing on that day, whether they had oral sex, how much it lasted, etc. I am not sure this is good to know, but I think she should answer your questions. Obviously not knowing is hurting you even more, because you're imagining how things must have developed. And this worm can eat you up forever as opoosed to finding out the details and getting over them. If I were you, I would stop any attempt to save the marriage or go to MC until I was told the details. But as unwilling as she is to tell you, she can easily lie. Link to post Share on other sites
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