hawx79 Posted January 20, 2015 Share Posted January 20, 2015 (edited) I am now 35 years old, I've always been reserved to relationships until 4 years ago when I met a great woman who liked being my friend, but when I approached her with romantical intent she rejected me and never talked to me again. Ever since I've been trying with other females and I've been heartbroken 5 times because I get attached so quickly. I was much happier before I started to venture into the love/dating realm! Now I feel numb and I often am with a saddened stare. The feeling of wanting to feel loved is like a drug, it hurts my soul yet I keep yearning it. I feel a huge big gap in my heart without it. The last girl I fell for was a nurse, I had 4 appointments with her for an injury of mine and I could tell with each appointment she liked me more and then I started to develop strong feelings for her. She shared details of her life to me and was also interested in me. So I checked her up on Facebook and found out she already has a boyfriend. So without being officially rejected I once again feel utter miserable and boozed myself the whole night. I feel like I have aged to 65. Edited January 20, 2015 by hawx79 Link to post Share on other sites
salparadise Posted January 20, 2015 Share Posted January 20, 2015 You do realize that developing feelings too fast that's causing the misery, right? We all want to be loved but you have to learn remain a bit neutral at first because you will likely experience many short-lived opportunities before you find one that blossoms. I suggest that you try not to fantasize about who a person might be or what a potential relationship might be. Go into it with optimism but save the feelings for when you have reason to believe the person is reciprocating your interest. I know it's easier said than done, but keeping it real should help. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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