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What is the right age to marry??


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I feel like anyone in the teens to 20 should not be married, Marriage is not a goo goo gaa gaa game and I think young adults of this age think that way ... It just ends in heartache...

 

I think you marry when the perfect person for you comes along .. (that being after the ages I stated) ... A good age though ... since were asking for age brackets ... My opinion .. late 20's - early 30's.

 

I graduated high school in may, got married in July. My husband and i were together about 3 years before we were married. Im 19 hes 22. We have 3 vehicels one of them is a 1970 cuda (very expensive), a log cabin home, jobs, etc. We manage all of our bills just fine. I dont really think age matters for everyone. Yeah maybe if your some imature romantic who just wants married because they think everything is perfect and romance. But I belive if you truley love one another what does age matter? Its just a number. What matters is how mature you are, if you can handel bills, jobs, etc.

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I graduated high school in may, got married in July. My husband and i were together about 3 years before we were married. Im 19 hes 22. We have 3 vehicels one of them is a 1970 cuda (very expensive), a log cabin home, jobs, etc. We manage all of our bills just fine. I dont really think age matters for everyone. Yeah maybe if your some imature romantic who just wants married because they think everything is perfect and romance. But I belive if you truley love one another what does age matter? Its just a number. What matters is how mature you are, if you can handel bills, jobs, etc.

 

How about when you can learn to spell properly.

 

Seriously, I agree with the "not before 25" idea. I'm 23 and I love my bf to death, and would love to marry him, but I know we're not ready. We've been together for just over 2 years and knew very soon after we started dating that we would be married someday - but we are still maturing at this age. Not to mention, that I am working on my second degree at the moment.

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I dont think there is right age of when to get married, its when you think the right person has come along and you're both mature enough to accept the responsibilities that come with married life.

 

 

To me age is just a number and really doesnt say much about the persons maturity level

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Everyone in life makes mistakes, whats right now may not be right tomorrow.. embrace life to its fullest and live each day like it is your last. If your heart is bound to another then share that with everyone you hold dear....

 

Even if the worst comes to worst, always look back and smile on the times you had because then you will realise it was all worth it.

 

Everyone is different, trust your self and your partner and you will make the right decision! :)

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I tend to think life experiences and accumulated wisdom are more important than age.

 

My brother settled down with his girl at 21. By then, he had been working six years, was self sufficient, had largely paid off a house and was a partner is a trade business that was thriving. They are still together, seven years later. Both had the maturity to know what they wanted by 21, and they are getting there together.

 

Me and my friends? It's taken us a lot longer. Most of us are in our late twenties, and we're only just beginning to get on the straight and narrow. I spent six years at university, which nicely postponed the real world and responsibilities until I was 24, and I've spent the years since trying to find a job I liked and choose a direction in life. I'm ready now, finally, as are my friends. But it would be the rare pampered college kid who knew what they wanted and who they wanted and had enough independent living experience to marry before 25, and an even rarer highschooler (and I say 'rare', not 'unkown'!)

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