Jay13094 Posted January 20, 2015 Share Posted January 20, 2015 i ended things with this guy.we weren't in a "official labelled relationship" but we sure acted like a couple, was exclusive, basically moved into my apartment, and yea we moved super fast (all within 2 1/2 months) everything seemed perfect and i was really happy. I soon realized he's talking to another girl, and he's pulling the goddamn "but i'm not your boyfriend" card, the CHEAPEST way out. Since on paper, its true.. he does not have to "technically be committed" but we were in deep and he even admitted that we were serious, and basically in a relationship SO WITH THAT SAID..you would expect me to be upset- and hell, if i did that to him he'd be mad as well. We have mutual friends together, so me running into him are very high. He wants to be friends, and still have me in his life.. he says he still likes me, but not enough to stop talking to that other girl apparently. So i'm in NC right now, but what do i do if he does contact me during NC? or if i see him during NC b/c of mutual friends. Link to post Share on other sites
mammasita Posted January 20, 2015 Share Posted January 20, 2015 Um, you ignore his a55. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Marco Valerio Posted January 20, 2015 Share Posted January 20, 2015 Just ignore/delete. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted January 20, 2015 Share Posted January 20, 2015 i ended things with this guy.we weren't in a "official labelled relationship" but we sure acted like a couple, was exclusive, basically moved into my apartment, and yea we moved super fast (all within 2 1/2 months) everything seemed perfect and i was really happy. I soon realized he's talking to another girl, and he's pulling the goddamn "but i'm not your boyfriend" card, the CHEAPEST way out. Since on paper, its true.. he does not have to "technically be committed" but we were in deep and he even admitted that we were serious, and basically in a relationship SO WITH THAT SAID..you would expect me to be upset- and hell, if i did that to him he'd be mad as well. We have mutual friends together, so me running into him are very high. He wants to be friends, and still have me in his life.. he says he still likes me, but not enough to stop talking to that other girl apparently. So i'm in NC right now, but what do i do if he does contact me during NC? or if i see him during NC b/c of mutual friends. If he contacts you, ignore. No Contact means No Contact. There's no gray area there. If you see him, avoid him unless you can't. If you can't, be polite but short and get away from him. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted January 20, 2015 Share Posted January 20, 2015 Delete, block, ignore, forget. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ieris Posted January 20, 2015 Share Posted January 20, 2015 All the above - plus make sure you look absolutely fabulous when you hang out with your friends and he'll see what he is missing! He blatantly wasted your time and said all the right things to get what he wants. Well don't waste another second on him, he is scum so don't even look at him or talk to him. He can go to that other girl, because you know what he really is and he ain't no prize. So be glad you're not with him and that you only waste a short time with him... (it could have been years). Go find someone who treats you like the only girl in the world x 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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