Shall I end my long distance 'relationship' despite really wanting to be with him?

[Emma1234]

We've been close for a long time. He moved countries a few months ago and we cut off contact. He initiated contact about 2 months ago and we have since seen each other where i live. I now have flights to go and see him at the end of next month but i don't know what to do I'm crazy about him i really really am I can't imagine being with anyone else but this is so hard. It's hard because we haven't explicitly said we're in a relationship and because my life is about to change as I'm graduating soon and I have no idea where I'll be. I can't base my life around him and move to where he is because I'm so unsure of 'us'.

any advice would so very helpful, i feel stuck and I don't know whether to communicate any of this to him or wait it out until the end of feb?

Thank you so much

[Satu]

The relationship you have is the relationship you have.

 

It will not magically morph into the relationship you want to have.

 

You either want what you have or you don't.

 

I suspect that you don't want what you have.

[Satu]

I'm crazy about him i really really am

 

Are you Limerent?

[spanz1]

you do not have to "cut it off". but you should be dating freely with others, and just date him the occasions that he is in town.

[compulsivedancer]

Maybe you should talk to him about it.