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Was he just using me for sex this whole time? (Updated)


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evanescentworld
Girl, it's been two weeks now. In the words of Frozen, let it go.

 

well fekkin' thanx fer that.

 

I had that on my brain all day yesterday and finally managed to get rid of it... Until now, that is....:mad:

 

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well fekkin' thanx fer that.

 

I had that on my brain all day yesterday and finally managed to get rid of it... Until now, that is....:mad:

 

:laugh:

 

Funny :laugh:

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well fekkin' thanx fer that.

 

I had that on my brain all day yesterday and finally managed to get rid of it... Until now, that is....:mad:

 

:laugh:

 

Haha! Sorry!!

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evanescentworld
Haha! Sorry!!

 

 

I have to say, this (on my FB feed) didn't help...!

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This person was just using you for sex, but thats not the biggest problem.

 

The biggest problem is that you let him do it.

 

There's a lesson here if you want to learn.

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I have to say, this (on my FB feed) didn't help...!

 

 

Hahaha that guy is awesome! and his voice is good!

 

Im pretty sick of the song as I have to sing it regularly for my daughter along with nearly every other Disney song weekly.

 

I haven't been able to get to the end of the movie without falling asleep yet and I have tried watching it like 7 times now I have no clue how it ends.

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he got out of a 7 year relationship a month before
Never get involved with someone who just recently came out of a relationship. Doesn't matter if they say they were over them and the other excuses that come with it.

 

1. Did he ever have any feelings for me? Or was he just using me for sex?
Read the answer to Nr 4.

 

2. Does he not wanna be with me because I messed up or was he never looking for a relationship to begin with?
Why do you want to be with someone who treats you like this to begin with? Because you love him? Well he clearly doesn't.

 

3. If I messed up with the 50 texts, why did he hang out with me after?
50 texts are a lot to give to someone who didn't bother replying back. Him hanging out with you did not make your situation better now did it? In fact you are feeling worse than before.

 

4. What is your proof if he was or was not just using me for sex?
In the beginning he even said "but I'd like to be with you aside from the sex is what you fail to realize" He texted me every day, told me he likes me a lot and I'm not just sex. We would hang out without having sex. He talked about meeting parents and maybe taking me to his best friend's wedding in May. one day he was acting distant and I went crazy texting him 50 times. he told me he was done. we went a week without talking and then we grabbed lunch 2 weeks ago. he paid, and we didnt have sex.* he then told me he's not looking for a relationship. I asked him if there were feelings and he said "I did have feelings" and he said "Idk what I want and I dont want to lead you on." Then I asked if this was my fault and he said "it definitely isnt you" then this past thurs we had sex and got lunch after. A week ago I asked him if he wanted to have sex. he said "can't have class" then I said "when can you" he said "idk shay in class can't talk" then I asked if he still wanted to have sex in general, and he didn't answer. Hours later I apologized for asking and he said "it's ok babe." It's been a week havent heard from him.
Just count how many times the word "sex" pops up there, it's like the relationship literally revolved around one thing.

 

My personal opinion, neither of you should be in a relationship. There is no foundation of a relationship here. Great relationships start with loyalty, trust and commitment, you keep on building on these foundations, sex is just a part of a relationship.

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evanescentworld

More curiously, why do we keep posting the same responses, over and over....?

 

Oh... Hang on..... yeah, because it bears repeating, I guess......

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