Cloud Nine Posted January 27, 2015 Share Posted January 27, 2015 Hi. I am a 26 y-o lesbian woman who suffered from a very traumatizing breakup 14 months ago. I had a rebound rs in the meanwhile which I ended five mobths ago. Now I haven't had any interest in anyone for a loooong time. I was afraid I'd never like anyone ever again. But recently I met a girl online and saw her at a party last weekend. She is 22 and has only had one serious gf but has kissed twi girls in the past 6 months. We have great conversations which easily last up to several hours. We have a lot in common. At the party she started flirting with me BUT she had also been flirting a younger girl who lives near her and this girl saw it and created some drama; to which I fled away and a little while later saw them kissing. She later stated she probably isnt her type anyway but she was willibg to give her a try. She said she's very cautious about sex. Despite what she is saying about not having had a lot of gf's etc; is this a player? Am I being played? Seeing them kiss really crushed the small spark of hope I had that I could actually have feelings for someone again.. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted January 27, 2015 Share Posted January 27, 2015 She does sound like she's a player, but maybe not specifically "playing you" since she's being right up front about coming on to other women. She doesn't sound like someone ready for a committed relationship, but then she's only 22. Maybe being friends with her could lead to meeting a lot of other ladies you might like, but not sure I'd try to make something serious out of this. She's got to stretch her wings a bit first. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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