ttgg88 Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 Girls would you take some one back after cheating being that that's the first relationship they had and was scared of the feelings they felt? guys same for you. If she cheated would you take her back? How and why?? Link to post Share on other sites
hangingbyathread Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 It would depend on the sincerity of the person who was trying to get back with me..how willing they were to make things better and how honest they were about it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ttgg88 Posted January 30, 2015 Author Share Posted January 30, 2015 I've tried so much. Now I had to go no contact. Because she was to confused and hurt which is understandable. She even admitted that she seen my change. So I figured time would help. Anymore suggestions? or should I just let her be. I won't get her anything for vday because she needs to miss me. And I feel that day will be a day where her emotional state will run wild. I also don't want it to burn me either if she is expecting me to get her something. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 I don't know. Probably not. Cheating because you have cold feet is cowardly. I would be more upset that the person couldn't / wouldn't talk to me. It may be a function of the quality of the cheating (one kiss vs repeated acts of sexual intercourse). One kiss I could forgive but not repeated sex. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
erklat Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 I don't think so. The relationship was most likely fubar before cheating occurred so what is the point in forgiving. Some people act fools forcing partner to dump them to avoid guilt, others aren't afraid of guilt and they cheat. You can't salvage where there is nothing to be salvaged. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ttgg88 Posted January 30, 2015 Author Share Posted January 30, 2015 I had sexual intercourse once so I cheated once. I broke up with her because she was beginning to be to busy and instead of just sucking it up I out of anger said I think we should split up. I cheated months before this. We had work ed it out so I thought. She didn't break up with me for cheating but brought it up as a reason. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 OK so you have both cheated. Doesn't that tell you that things are horrible wrong in this relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
Author ttgg88 Posted January 30, 2015 Author Share Posted January 30, 2015 No I only cheated she didn't Link to post Share on other sites
Jimmyjackson Posted January 31, 2015 Share Posted January 31, 2015 No, once someone cheats the trust is gone forever. You can paper over the cracks and pretend everything is okay but it will always be in the back of your mind. I couldn't get back with a girl who I knew had another man cuddle her, be intimate with her, kiss her...while we were still together. People who take back cheaters puzzle me. If someone truly loves you, they don't cheat on you to begin with. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted January 31, 2015 Share Posted January 31, 2015 I wouldn't take a cheater back. Not because of any hurt I felt, but because they had lost my respect. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted January 31, 2015 Share Posted January 31, 2015 No, never. Link to post Share on other sites
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