tegteg Posted March 31, 2005 Share Posted March 31, 2005 Well im at a stand still i think, but would like some advise on this, as this is also from my thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t57285/ <---pls read.... somethings have changed and would like just a lil advise, Going to be a lil long again sorry After that day (vday) we talked a couple days later, then i txt her she didnt respond, hmm ok, a day later sent another, no responce? Ok... wait couple more days, call her, no answer hmm? Soo i call her home fone (which i never do) i was gettin concerned.. And she answers... i ask you ok? Yes im fine, me Ok good, well you havnt answerd your fone, her O yeah i been ignoring it (she had told me that shes gettin a diff. fone cause of certin guys callin etc..) few min chit chat (shes gotta go back to dentist in a few days), then i ask hey waht you doin tonite? Would you like to go out do something. Her no i think im goin to relax at home with my family tonite... Me ok, sounds good, well you have a wonderful nite and tell your family hi for me. And ill call you later... Her ok you have a good nite also... few more days later- i call her, she didnt call me or txt me all. Seeing how shes doing from the dentist. She answers, me how you feelin there sexy? Im fine (i hear back ground noise) Well how was the dentist? her o fine, it was just a lil fix, me o ok. Her i just bought a new bed. (more noise like talkin) (me thinkin i wish i caould test it with you in it haha)... Then she says somthihng to someone (like a guy)... I say well you sound like your busy right now, ill talk to you later, her what? i repeet.. She says ok ill call ya later... But no call later... I had a toren back muscle, and cracked rib through all this, and ended up getting pnumonia (vday i think) and soo i got sick, and no work soo i wait like 2-3weeks laying ruond that house tryin to get better and of course thinkin of her. Well i fig its been long enough and i txt her fone, and the was responce was, is this d? i answer yes, o this is j (her sis) i have siss fone, me guess she left it home, her no she gave it to me and got a new one.. O ok cool, lil chit chat.. and left it at that... well i got REALLY sick with a conditon i have after the pnumonia, and lost 30pds and got put in the hospital... Mide you now we have not talked for over a month now, soo i get in and think, hmm to call her at work or not? (She works right next to hospital) I say F it, and call. She says shell be right up after work 9pm... Sure enough she comes up, and just bout starts crying, but we talk and she stays till 2 in morn... Dont remeber everyting but most, well she says shell call me or come see me the next day. and she leaves, but doesnt call nor come back... and have not talked to her since that nite? But i did send her a TY card and letter, lettin her know that it ment alot to me for her to come and spend time with me, and not to be a stranger and call me or stop by my house (im home now), and that im planing a camping trip in a couple months and invited her to go.. and left it at that... But nothing from her so far... Am i beating a dead horse here you think? Kinda confusing, cause i wouldnt think if she didnt wanna be around me or whatever she wouldnt have spent so much time with me at the hospital... I just wanna get out of it befor "THOSE FEELINGS" start to come back... But if i do, it will mean the "friendship" will be over and i dont want that to happen. I will be friendly to her when i see her, but nothin more... BTW i cant really avoid her, friends with friedns ya know... And yes i have heard certin things whats shes been doing, but eh, its nothing really of my concern.... If you have any thought on this i would truly appreciate it! TIA Link to post Share on other sites
beatjunkies Posted April 1, 2005 Share Posted April 1, 2005 wow i really dont know what to say.. I mean she acted all interested before and what not.. If I were you personally I would probably just ask her what the deal is.. Its been going back and forth for a while.. She seems now to not show a lot of interest... Who knows.. Why dont you ask her whats going on ? At least you might find something out more. You know what I mean ? If things seemed goot before and you were making progress and now you aren't what do you have to lose ? Its your call Take care Link to post Share on other sites
Author tegteg Posted April 4, 2005 Author Share Posted April 4, 2005 BJ: THanks, i may just do that, my bday is coming up so ill invited her to come to my lil shin dig... Just dont know how to go bout it haha, just play it off by ear.... Man i expected a couple more responces at least tho... Yes it is a bit of a odd situation... I really do care bout this woman and me and her have been through alot over the years we've known each other... So i would REALLY like to try and keep it goin if poss. so pls some more ideas/opinions..... Guess i should step outta my box and just flat out ask? eh? On a good note, i was asked out/number wanted, 2 times by 2 diff. girl/woman... (said i had a GF tho, they not my type) Kinda a ego boost there or something.... TIA for anymore help.... Link to post Share on other sites
60sdreamgirl Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 heya! sounds like this chick is keepin somethin hidden from u. maybe like a personal issue or some other guy? it seems awful random otherwise for her just to be showing she's interested and then turning the other shoulder ya know?? i'd ask her what's up. sometimes it takes prodding. hey it'll show you're concerned, and you won't seem like a passive guy! soooo i say gooo for it. whooooa lol i didn't realize how old this post was! oopps..... so whats the dealyo on your situation now teg? hehe Link to post Share on other sites
Author tegteg Posted April 25, 2005 Author Share Posted April 25, 2005 haha yeah a lil old... Well i still havnt talked to her. Her sis invtited her to my bday (i still dont have her new number), and said she would be there, but she didnt come. I think cause of another person that she had just got in a lil tiff with was there... But thats no excuse really... Soo i dont know???? But from what i have heard as of late from her best friend, shes become quite the partier and alcoholic (her words). So this may be why... I dont really know what to do at this point. Except just to kick back and if she wants to talk to me she can call if not, owell, no loss on my part i guess??? Any other sug. 60s? Link to post Share on other sites
60sdreamgirl Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 kick back and relax, she's enjoyin herself for now.... any effort to get her to seriously tell you what's up will probly just result in her pullin away or avoiding u. keep it light, seems like ur on good terms with her fam which is always a plus Link to post Share on other sites
Author tegteg Posted April 25, 2005 Author Share Posted April 25, 2005 Yeah im not goin to push it. No reason to really... All tho, i would like to be with her... Another friend of mine ive been talkin to latly has been keepin me interested in her as of late. Talk over email and went to a lil bon-fire at her house this last weekend. Tryin to read her but is a lil hard... All tho she did walk me out to my car and we talked a bit befor i left and she kept givin me hugs I like givin her hugs cause shes short and im tall haha Shes comin to my bday party for my race buddies this weekend 60s you have quite the nice pucker up Im tryin to fig out how to resize a pic so i can put mine up... Im a bit sloooow haha Link to post Share on other sites
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