prayformydownfall Posted April 2, 2005 Share Posted April 2, 2005 well after being 100% cured, my head, my heart, my confidence has returned, and i am smiling, well bombshell hits wen she texts my best mate at college to ask how she can win me back, shes made the biggest mistake of her life, shes been a stupid cow, she hates herself..... etc.... well she rang to ask me to meet up, i sorta sed yes and designated a time n place next week... yet i have met an amazing new girl but i cant now remove the ex from my mind... im not sure where this mini relationship is goin and im not sure where id want the ex and me to go... all i wanted all along was to her the words i heard tonite, wen i did i was like is that it, is thats wats caused all this heartache? iv been thro every emotion, its made me a even more special person than i was before. mentally i am twice the man i was... i broke up with her due to me lacking commitment, i decided i wanted her back and was stupid, she went with another bloke which hurt like hell, i got over it and moved on and now shes back... i feel like jus runnin away to mexico - im sooooo confused!!! help! Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted April 2, 2005 Share Posted April 2, 2005 You didn't post enough information so I will have to ask you a few questions. After what amount of time didn't you want to commit? What exactly did it mean? Did you refuse to marry her after a few years of relationship or did you date other women in a few-month relationship? Did she break up then went with the other fellow or did she cheat on you? What other issues did you have? If you love her and you think she is the right one, you might give it a try. Women do that if they feel insecure and the guy doesn't want to commit - they cheat! You must have let her down in some way... Link to post Share on other sites
Author prayformydownfall Posted April 2, 2005 Author Share Posted April 2, 2005 Originally posted by RecordProducer You didn't post enough information so I will have to ask you a few questions. After what amount of time didn't you want to commit? What exactly did it mean? Did you refuse to marry her after a few years of relationship or did you date other women in a few-month relationship? Did she break up then went with the other fellow or did she cheat on you? What other issues did you have? If you love her and you think she is the right one, you might give it a try. Women do that if they feel insecure and the guy doesn't want to commit - they cheat! You must have let her down in some way... i was with her 2 years, it meant everything to me, it scared me how deep i cared for her and where it was taking me as im only young... (21)... I didnt refuse to marry her, in fact i liked the idea it was just very confusing! she broke up with me then went with someone else, ppl were tellin her that i had cheated on her and that she was better off. i think i let her down and hurt her so much by breakin it off but i was confused and needed time apart, wen i had a think (told her i needed a week of space) she had hooked up with someone else.... Link to post Share on other sites
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