ttgg88 Posted February 4, 2015 Share Posted February 4, 2015 (edited) ASHLEY= is just a girl that's attracted to me way to fast. BRANDI= Is my ex that I'm still in love with. ASH: I love everything about u so far. Thankyou for telling me the truth. I am seizing you if you give us both a shot.. Ash: This is new and refreshing and scary but I really want to get to know you and see what it is between us possibly.. I'm humble.. And honest. Strong and sensitive. We can figure this out.. Day for day. Ash: I love how your so respectful loving caring nurturing sexy subtle.. Domineering passionate charismatic.. Ash: Ok and I'm willing wait it out to do that boo. I won't let you down! So I blocked Brandi from everything and posted this just basically to say how fast she(Ashley) was moving and I'm not really ready for that. Not to make Brandi made or else I would have not blocked her. We are not together she is my ex but... one of brandi friends said someone sent it to Brandi. All she tells me is that she wants me to move on.. but I still feel guilty because I love her. And if her friend told me that then they talked about it together obviously. Brandi friend said If you wanted a 1/2 chance of getting back I shouldn't have posted them. And I'm like first off I blocked her. Second why is someone screenshoting ****? Thirdly I don't feel I have a chance because she tells me to move on after I tried everything. any thoughts on how she might feel... or thinking..HER friend went and commented on the txt pic...said something that didn't make since... That's why I texted her and ask what she was talking about. I texted her and said sorry but she ignored me...when she did text she said leave her alone and that she didn't believe anything I say. I think this is out of anger. How do you think she felt about the text from Ashley? Did I push her completely away? Edited February 4, 2015 by ttgg88 Link to post Share on other sites
Mi7522 Posted February 4, 2015 Share Posted February 4, 2015 (edited) ASHLEY= is just a girl that's attracted to me way to fast. BRANDI= Is my ex that I'm still in love with. ASH: I love everything about u so far. Thankyou for telling me the truth. I am seizing you if you give us both a shot.. Ash: This is new and refreshing and scary but I really want to get to know you and see what it is between us possibly.. I'm humble.. And honest. Strong and sensitive. We can figure this out.. Day for day. Ash: I love how your so respectful loving caring nurturing sexy subtle.. Domineering passionate charismatic.. Ash: Ok and I'm willing wait it out to do that boo. I won't let you down! So I blocked Brandi from everything and posted this just basically to say how fast she(Ashley) was moving and I'm not really ready for that. Not to make Brandi made or else I would have not blocked her. We are not together she is my ex but... one of brandi friends said someone sent it to Brandi. All she tells me is that she wants me to move on.. but I still feel guilty because I love her. And if her friend told me that then they talked about it together obviously. Brandi friend said If you wanted a 1/2 chance of getting back I shouldn't have posted them. And I'm like first off I blocked her. Second why is someone screenshoting ****? Thirdly I don't feel I have a chance because she tells me to move on after I tried everything. any thoughts on how she might feel... or thinking..HER friend went and commented on the txt pic...said something that didn't make since... That's why I texted her and ask what she was talking about. I texted her and said sorry but she ignored me...when she did text she said leave her alone and that she didn't believe anything I say. I think this is out of anger. How do you think she felt about the text from Ashley? Did I push her completely away? I'm just throwing this out there but by the sounds of things, even if you did block her, you knew by posting this it would somehow get back to her. You were trying to manipulate things so that you would get a response from her. Well, you accomplished that and she told you to leave her alone. I think not only have you pushed her away but that retaining wall that you have built in front of her, without you even noticing you were building by doing these things, have made it virtually impossible for her ever to think of you romantically or ever getting back together again. Edited February 4, 2015 by Mi7522 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Jessie1231 Posted February 4, 2015 Share Posted February 4, 2015 It seems really low to publicly post what someone who seemed to like you privately told you, no matter what your reasons. But yes, it really seems like your reasons were to let it get to your ex. If you're friends with her friends then of course you knew she would find out. I hope Ashley can find someone nice who won't get her hopes up while using her to make an ex jealous. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
dumbass2 Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 (edited) Keep doing what you're doing and you'll have neither, which may be best for you at this point. Edited February 5, 2015 by dumbass2 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ttgg88 Posted February 5, 2015 Author Share Posted February 5, 2015 What does that mean? Link to post Share on other sites
NopeNah Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 What does that mean? He means that you are trying to use one girl to get the other back...in turn...you'll end up alone. How old are you, by the way? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
lolablue17 Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 I don't think it's a big deal. Your Ex and her crowd just want you to be lonely and sad, and when you're not, It's a simple traditional jealousy that you have someone else now instead of sitting in your room sobbing and missing your ex. It means nothing. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ttgg88 Posted February 5, 2015 Author Share Posted February 5, 2015 He means that you are trying to use one girl to get the other back...in turn...you'll end up alone. How old are you, by the way? I'm 27 Years old. I didn't try and get her back honestly....I just wanted to make a point of how girls sometimes move to fast. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 You are still too hung up on Brandi to move forward with Ashley or anybody else. Ashley is fooling herself because she thinks she can change you. Brandi wants nothing to do with you or she's playing head games which means you should want nothing to do with her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ttgg88 Posted February 5, 2015 Author Share Posted February 5, 2015 I think Brandi is just Is just mad....because she think I want to make her jealous....but to late because I already got her flowers sent to her house....so if she is mad I hope this doesn't make it worse. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 All the flowers are going to do is waste your money. She most likely will throw them out. However, the fact that you are still sending Brandi flowers tells me that you are in no way ready to start up with Ashley or anybody else so stop stringing her along. Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 Why would you post someone's private communication with you on FB, of all places? And do not try to tell us that you were not doing it to stir up your ex. This is very childish behaviour and at 27 too... What woman would want a man who thinks it is OK to post private stuff from a woman who sounds like she is besotted, and a poor woman who doesn't really deserve her texts being plastered all over social media. How is Ashley going to feel? Or doesnt she matter. Perhaps this trait of using people was the reason Brandi split up with you in the first place. You have only yourself to blame here. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
erklat Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 You already made every possible fail in the book so there nothing to be done there. Forget Brandi, you are already so weak and spineless in her eyes that she will no way see you romantically short term if ever. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ttgg88 Posted February 5, 2015 Author Share Posted February 5, 2015 I posted them on instagram....and I think her ex sent them to her. her friends told me that she might needed to see someone trying to holler at me...she said no girl wants a dude that wants them ...I'm just a guy trying to her back...she wants space and time...I get that. reality is I messed up sooo bad. She still has all our pics up on Twitter and instagram. I lovE her daughter so much soooooooo much like she is mine's. So I sent a bear to her From me and the flowers I sent...Made it seem like they came from her daughter. I really do have her best interest at heart. And far as Ashley she just got out of a 12 year relationship 3 weeks ago. I feel as though I'm a rebound. So Idk about her. Posting the text was wrong but I only wanted Brandi to see that while I'm fighting for her others are fighting for me. Thought it would trigger something. Link to post Share on other sites
towardthefuture Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 I left my relationship feeling like I needed to grow up and be a real man. I'm 27. Worked really hard on myself. I'm not feeling so bad after reading this. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ttgg88 Posted February 5, 2015 Author Share Posted February 5, 2015 I'm doing the same thing bro...getting myself together but I have anger that I have to deal with. I felt as if she gave me mixed signals and then it's I'm confused. About what? I mean she didn't break up with me I broke up with her. And she brings up all this other stuff. Like you have no idea. She was talking to her ex after the break up like how ****ing awkward...and he at first was trying to **** then acted like he wanted to help us....then went on to go on my page a take that picture. So I was already so Mad. Like I just think she needs time to understand fully what happened. Link to post Share on other sites
JonjMie Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 speechless really Link to post Share on other sites
Author ttgg88 Posted February 5, 2015 Author Share Posted February 5, 2015 Yea me to....you have nothing to say though? Link to post Share on other sites
erklat Posted February 6, 2015 Share Posted February 6, 2015 Dude stop plotting and implement NC. She dumped you so she should be plotting. I don't know why is it so hard in the beginning to go NC. They kicked you to the curb the worst possible way. Link to post Share on other sites
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