notyouraveragebabe Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 So I been dating this super duper hot guy since September. He probably can have any girl he likes. 6"4", nice body, cute face, good job, but I GUESS not ready to settle down. He disappeared when I asked where our relationship was going then came back. We had good sexual chemistry too. Anyways, when he came back he was super flakey. Saying he would take me out and never did or never called. I went on vacation then he went on vacation. We been communicating throughout our vacations. But I just knew he wasn't ready for a committed relationship. Finally, yesterday he messaged me saying he wanted to hang out and I finally had the nerve to tell him to f**k off. In summary, I just told him I don't need him treating me like a piece of sh**t, and they're are plenty of guys out there who would love to even have the chance to date me. He mentioned, something like we have fun together and have good sexual chemistry. I replied "I've had better". I was pretty harsh to this guy. ONLY because he has been treating me like crap, not respecting my time. Making dates and not calling to cancel. At the end he actually killed me with kindness and I feel pretty bad for all the things I said. He apologized and told me I don't doubt they're are plenty of guys out there for you. I'm moving at the end of the month (for his job) and I'm not looking for anything serious, saying he knows I am. I wished him luck and we said our good-byes! (tears*, I really just wanted him to want to be with me). Link to post Share on other sites
SunnySide0418 Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 Good for you for having self respect! The making a date and then not even calling is a deal breaker for sure! You will find better .. Link to post Share on other sites
imtooconfused Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 (edited) You know a player when you see one. It's not like you don't know he's a player. You just have to decide whether you are willing to play the game by their rules, because they would never play the game by yours. Edited February 5, 2015 by imtooconfused Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted February 6, 2015 Share Posted February 6, 2015 Well, at least you left with your dignity intact. I don't know why women are so afraid sometimes to call a guy on their crap. No one knows better than them when they're not treating a woman right. And they don't respect a woman who pretends not to notice because that reeks of desperation. So glad you got it off your chest. Sorry it didn't work out. Hey, you never know, he could resurface in a few years when he IS ready. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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