JohnGoober Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 Hey guys, I hope everyone's doing well. I guess I've posted a couple of threads here before and here I am again. Long story short, I'm in a relationship with a girl for more than 3 months now and I'll be visiting her shortly once I'm done with my last exam. I really like her more than anyone and lately I've been feeling like it's a one-sided relationship. One more thing that made me worry is she kind of said..she doesn't trust me. I don't know if it's right or wrong for her to say that but it did hurt me very much. We've shared a lot of things and I don't hide anything from her. We were having a casual talk and she said she wanted to look at my passport so I showed her and I asked her if I can see her name and photo of her passport but she refused. I asked her why and said she doesn't trust me enough and she fears I might use her identity for bad intentions. We've known each other for nearly an year now and with 3 months of relationship and she still doesn't trust me. She actually thinks I might use her personal information for bad purposes. I asked her if she trusts me and she said..I don't know. It hurts. Should I talk to her about this? Link to post Share on other sites
emi Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 She seems smart to be cautious but at the same time shes really rude to you as well. I would consider this is a slap in the face if you known each other for 1 years and three months relationship. Im not sure how to tell you but there are 2 options as i see : 1. Visit her and show you are genuine and trustable. But if she doesnt still, end it because you cant make people do anything against their wish. 2. Tell her you are hurt by her comment and see how she responses. If she sorry and stated why( maybe she had been in a catfish before?), then you should visit her but if shes cold and doesnt give you any proper reason why she doesnt trust you, just end it and move on. No need to waste money or time doing all sort of thing for someone who doesnt appreciate it Hey guys, I hope everyone's doing well. I guess I've posted a couple of threads here before and here I am again. Long story short, I'm in a relationship with a girl for more than 3 months now and I'll be visiting her shortly once I'm done with my last exam. I really like her more than anyone and lately I've been feeling like it's a one-sided relationship. One more thing that made me worry is she kind of said..she doesn't trust me. I don't know if it's right or wrong for her to say that but it did hurt me very much. We've shared a lot of things and I don't hide anything from her. We were having a casual talk and she said she wanted to look at my passport so I showed her and I asked her if I can see her name and photo of her passport but she refused. I asked her why and said she doesn't trust me enough and she fears I might use her identity for bad intentions. We've known each other for nearly an year now and with 3 months of relationship and she still doesn't trust me. She actually thinks I might use her personal information for bad purposes. I asked her if she trusts me and she said..I don't know. It hurts. Should I talk to her about this? Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 How did you show her your passport? Did you take a photo and send it, or..? And have you spoken to her on web cam? You need to be cautious too. Her fears are not totally unreasonable, but it's not exactly fair to ask for your personal information when she is unwilling to do the same. Does she also have your passport number? Link to post Share on other sites
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