Should I try to talk to her in person?

[johnny0112]

Me and my ex-girlfriend were together for 9 months and our break up was messy. I said some messed up/disrespectful things(call her out her name) because she had already met another guy through her cousin after we broke up. It pushed her further away and we ended up just moving on. Then her and the new guy started up a relationship but it didn't last. Long story short she then came back to me because i was single also after having a decent amount of "flings". But we just tried to take it slow and be friends for a while. Everything was going good we were just getting back comfortable around each other but then she said something that rubbed me the wrong way on social media and I called her out on it but it ended up a big argument which i called her out her name again because I was mad and she ended up blocking me on social media and my phone number I think. I realized I over-reacted and things just went too far. I just want to apologize and maybe she can forgive me as I know I don't have a problem, I just need to mature a little(I'm not the only guy to ever call a girl disrespectful names out of anger). Should I show up to her school(cosmetology school) bring her some flowers and just try to talk to her in person? I am 21 she is 19

[Mi7522]

Me and my ex-girlfriend were together for 9 months and our break up was messy. I said some messed up/disrespectful things(call her out her name) because she had already met another guy through her cousin after we broke up. It pushed her further away and we ended up just moving on. Then her and the new guy started up a relationship but it didn't last. Long story short she then came back to me because i was single also after having a decent amount of "flings". But we just tried to take it slow and be friends for a while. Everything was going good we were just getting back comfortable around each other but then she said something that rubbed me the wrong way on social media and I called her out on it but it ended up a big argument which i called her out her name again because I was mad and she ended up blocking me on social media and my phone number I think. I realized I over-reacted and things just went too far. I just want to apologize and maybe she can forgive me as I know I don't have a problem, I just need to mature a little(I'm not the only guy to ever call a girl disrespectful names out of anger). Should I show up to her school(cosmetology school) bring her some flowers and just try to talk to her in person? I am 21 she is 19

 

Nope don't do anything like that. You need to control your anger first off, secondly leave the girl alone for awhile and figure out what you can work on for yourself. If anything give her a call or text apologizing if you have something to apologize for and after that be a ghost to her for a couple of months. You'll clear your head and decide then if you want to pursue her or not