Damnluv Posted April 2, 2005 Share Posted April 2, 2005 Should I give my Ex GF a second chance...? I really do love her and she broke one year ago she never said why until today, after she broke up with me she basically called me somtimes say she wanted me but couldnt be with me etc. Then she never called for about 7 months and for know reason she phones up and keeps saying sorry and that she does love me etc etc basically she wants me back but i dont think my friends and family wud like that they hate becos she left me after bieng 2 yrs with her and the week after she was seeing a second cousin of mine. She played me basically but she says shes changed and that shes realised that theres no guy like me and wants to spend her life with me. Should I let her back in my life and talk to my friends and family ? I really love this gurl infact out from all the gurls and gfs Ive had shes the only one which make me feeel WOW Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum Posted April 2, 2005 Share Posted April 2, 2005 So did she break up with you to see other people?? If so, I think this is a normal thing for young people or those who havent dated much. We all need experience in life to determine what it is we are searching for. How old are you two anyways? I would not jump back in the saddle just yet. She may be sincere, she may do the same thing again. This is a toughie. Definately re-evaluate the situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Damnluv Posted April 2, 2005 Author Share Posted April 2, 2005 Well she was 17-19 and i was 18-21 now. You know whats wierd that when i see her and she looks me back i can feel so i dunno its like this chemical/physical attraction and i know she feeels it too its like strange because once i proved it after she broke up with me I went to get my stuff and for no reason we looked at each other while I was picking up my things {And we wea suppose to be like mad at each other lol} and BOOM for no reason i felt extreme attracted and we ended up u know.. lolol She broke up with me her reason ===> "My friends brainwashed me and told me that a break would be good and when on the break they forced me to meet new people and I was a stupid to believe them when they said you where seeing other ppl. So with that and all the stress from my parents I couldnt be with you , but that has been the biggest mistake of my life" Now even thou its not sed by her but when she left me her friends use to be with when she called up and i could hear them whisper to her to tell me mean stuff so i left alone. And to think one of her friends is cousin which I will hate for life and vowed that i will never speak to her again in my life due to ruining my realtionship. I think i shud give her a chance.... i was gonna engage her this year if she would have been with me and like I said in my other post thea has been no gurl which has wowed me like her as in emotionaly/physical etc. MORE opinions please ppl. Link to post Share on other sites
tegteg Posted April 2, 2005 Share Posted April 2, 2005 Well it seems as tho she does want to be with you, but yet the imatureity is deff. there... I wouldnt get back into it so quickly. Just take it slow feel things out befor things get outta hand and you wish you had been using your brain. JMO tho... If you feel its right then go with your heart and do it... But go in knowin that theres a deff. poss. that if shes around the same ppl it can/will happen again... But im sure you know all this... If it was me, i would NC and see what she does and says, and go from there.... HTH Link to post Share on other sites
Sal Paradise Posted April 4, 2005 Share Posted April 4, 2005 Wouldn't do it, yeah it could work out but chances are it won't, especially considering that she doesn't take responsibility for the break up and blames it on a lame ass excuse like being brain washed by her friends. No one can force you to do anything, she did it on her own. Link to post Share on other sites
mixwell Posted April 4, 2005 Share Posted April 4, 2005 I think you should giver her another chance.. Wow thats weird that after 1 year there still is a chance of them coming back.. This gives me some kind of hope for my situation.. I know I shouldn't wait and I am not but theres a chance !! haha. I saw go for it but take things slow !! Hope things work out for you !! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Damnluv Posted April 4, 2005 Author Share Posted April 4, 2005 Well thanks for all you replys , I have offered her to come to a BBQ that my work is doing and its a little far off {on june 4th} but I have told her that I need a reply for 2 weeks and i didnt ask her out as a date I told her you can come and we can talk. Shes now phoning me every day around 10 lolol wierd. Iam gonna take things slow but i cant promise anything, she must first show me that shes changed. And yeah theres always hope well atleast with me , I could wait yrs for someone i love to come back. I shall keep updating this until somthing happens. Link to post Share on other sites
mixwell Posted April 5, 2005 Share Posted April 5, 2005 thats good man !! She calls you a lot now huh ? I would just act casual.. dont make it too easy for her to come back to you even though you probly feel like jumping right back into it.. All sounds good though from what you say ! Take care ! I wish I was in the situation like you are !!! I think you should call her up and cuss her out !! haha j/k Link to post Share on other sites
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