Torxx12 Posted February 9, 2015 Share Posted February 9, 2015 Ill get straight to the point, she broke up with me in october, and ive been doing no contact since mid december. B4 that i would txt her like a retard doing small talk but of course that got me no where. When i would see her in person we would make small talk both be smiling and then go our seperate ways. But since i started no contact i decided to delete her from all social media, and since then whenever i would run into her she would be very cold and basically ignore me. She claimed in the breakup she wanted to be friends and i went along with it even though i didnt mean it, im basically being civilized when i see her. Her birthday is coming up and invited my friends/her friends and told them she invited me, even though that same day i saw her she never mentioned it to me but told everyone else. I then found out that a friend of hers asked her if she invited me and her response was "will see if he shows up" Can anyone explain the logic behind this? Is she trying to play games? What do you guys think, was thinking bout showing up with another girl just to prove to her she aint gonna play me Link to post Share on other sites
dumbass2 Posted February 9, 2015 Share Posted February 9, 2015 No, do not show up with another girl (you're getting someone else involved that doesn't deserve to be in the game) and do not contact her at all about her birthday. No happy birthday text or cards at all!!! Don't play games along with her. It will just create a lot of drama. Do not stoop to her level. Be the mature one, it will piss the crap out of her and it is only what you should do anyway. Of course she is playing games and it is for her and nothing to get back together with you. She thinks she knows how you are right now and that you will probably show up on your own. Why? because you love her!!!! That is what she is thinking and she does not love you at all. It's all about her. Do not go at all and that will show her. you have to keep in NC and try to avoid her at all cost or at least try your best to just be indifferent when you run into her. Try to pretend that she does not exist to you. Link to post Share on other sites
Jimmyjackson Posted February 9, 2015 Share Posted February 9, 2015 She's giving you the cold shoulder to help you move on, if she kept in contacts she'd just be giving you false hope. It seems nasty but it's actually a blessing, my ex did the same thing. As for 'friends'; exes just say that because its a standard cliche to try and make you feel better, it never happens. There's a lyric from one of my favourite bands... "so please don't pretend that we'll stay friends, because you know as well as i do that that, well that just, it never happens" Link to post Share on other sites
Holmes85 Posted February 9, 2015 Share Posted February 9, 2015 Ill get straight to the point, she broke up with me in october, and ive been doing no contact since mid december. B4 that i would txt her like a retard doing small talk but of course that got me no where. When i would see her in person we would make small talk both be smiling and then go our seperate ways. But since i started no contact i decided to delete her from all social media, and since then whenever i would run into her she would be very cold and basically ignore me. She claimed in the breakup she wanted to be friends and i went along with it even though i didnt mean it, im basically being civilized when i see her. Her birthday is coming up and invited my friends/her friends and told them she invited me, even though that same day i saw her she never mentioned it to me but told everyone else. I then found out that a friend of hers asked her if she invited me and her response was "will see if he shows up" Can anyone explain the logic behind this? Is she trying to play games? What do you guys think, was thinking bout showing up with another girl just to prove to her she aint gonna play me Torxx12, You can't put a logic behind immaturity. She broke up with you, you delete her from everywhere (which got to her obviously), she invites everyone to her birthday and "lies" that she invited you to her friends. This is all Drama, I would not only stay away from her birthday but also stay away from her in person. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
JollyDays Posted February 9, 2015 Share Posted February 9, 2015 Torxx12, You can't put a logic behind immaturity. She broke up with you, you delete her from everywhere (which got to her obviously), she invites everyone to her birthday and "lies" that she invited you to her friends. This is all Drama, I would not only stay away from her birthday but also stay away from her in person. Whoop, there it is. I went through the same BS in one of my relationships about 15 years ago. She's playing PsyOps with you like the crazy ex did to me, and you're going to get burned if you continue to go along. There's 7 billion people on Planet Earth, and billions of available women. Why sweat one? GET OUT THERE AND LIVE IT UP!! YOU'RE FREE!! Link to post Share on other sites
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