Pretywoman Posted February 16, 2015 Share Posted February 16, 2015 I sent him an e-greeting lunar new year wish thru email. I know it sucks. I know I would be disappointed if he doesnt reply. I didnt have high expectation on his response. If he does, I would be happy. I just feel its only right to wish him his big new year day. Link to post Share on other sites
beach Posted February 16, 2015 Share Posted February 16, 2015 Why? Isn't this the married dude who doesn't make effort with you? I hope you will treat yourself kindly and begin dating single men who make you their top priority. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pretywoman Posted February 16, 2015 Author Share Posted February 16, 2015 yea i know. Im stupid and dump. Tell me that. It was me initiated the break up. it was him lead me on to this breaking off point due to nc. I am married myself.. and yet i am involved into another affair. The new affair barely 2 months. Link to post Share on other sites
beach Posted February 16, 2015 Share Posted February 16, 2015 Why not divorce? Why stay married when you're searching out affairs that obviously disappoint you. Do things to make you proud of the woman you are - I hope you will. And it's not nice to talk unkindly to/about yourself... Try not to, ok? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pretywoman Posted February 16, 2015 Author Share Posted February 16, 2015 Being other woman I know that i am 2nd. likewise to him. We have no intention to leave our spouses. Why are there him and i or us its because there is lacking of affectionate at home. We both or most men generally would want our family but same time getting another affection outside home. Most other women want their other men to leave their wives. But i am not. i was happy as what i was. i have family and i have had another man. But i didnt want it to end too soon. During my grieving period I met my new ap. His presence was a total distraction and it was easier to get over my ex. But that doesnt mean I totally forgot abt him. Link to post Share on other sites
nikki76 Posted February 16, 2015 Share Posted February 16, 2015 Being other woman I know that i am 2nd. likewise to him. We have no intention to leave our spouses. Why are there him and i or us its because there is lacking of affectionate at home. We both or most men generally would want our family but same time getting another affection outside home. Most other women want their other men to leave their wives. But i am not. i was happy as what i was. i have family and i have had another man. But i didnt want it to end too soon. During my grieving period I met my new ap. His presence was a total distraction and it was easier to get over my ex. But that doesnt mean I totally forgot abt him. Oh boy. You are me 6 months ago. I started another affair to get over my first affair. (I am married and so were my ap). Then my first ap came back ( it was only an EA from this point on ) and let me tell you, you are in for a world of heartbreak if your first ap contacts you back. You think you dont have affection at home. I felt the same thing. I think this is our way of justifying the affair and telling ourselves its okay to have the affair because our spouse isnt giving us the attention we deserve. Once you step away from the affair, you will realize that it is you that is lacking something,. You need to figure out what and work on that instead of wasting anymore more time hurting everyone involved in your life. Hopefully you won't get yourself to far into the affair. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pretywoman Posted February 18, 2015 Author Share Posted February 18, 2015 Im not seeking any advice this time round. I just want to let it out.. I did it.. I had e-greeting lunar new year wish sent to him yesterday. Then at night I sent another SMS wish to both of his mobiles. He hasnt read the mail nor replied to my text. I have this strong feeling that he may have gave up his mobiles not because he isnt replying, way before I sent him the text.. But I just insist to do so.. Thanks for reading.. Link to post Share on other sites
Lurkeraspect Posted February 18, 2015 Share Posted February 18, 2015 Who did you send this to? The MOM who you are in NC with or the new OM? I'm guessing it's not your husband? Not sure what you possibly hope to gain by this. Very confusing. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pretywoman Posted February 18, 2015 Author Share Posted February 18, 2015 Hi LK.. I sent the wishes to my ex ap. Last I spoke to him in last Dec and since then there isnt any contact. I have no expectation actually when i sent those wishes. However, i would be happy should he reply. Link to post Share on other sites
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