littlesister1234 Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 My boyfriend and I have been together 7 months. The past few weeks were rough. So rough, that we broke up. He lives an hour away from me, and we would see each other every other weekend. Before I left after we broke up, he told me he wanted to work it out, he just needed some time. Today he texted me that "we need to talk." I'm expecting the worst. Can someone give me some tips on how to handle the situation with class and get a grip on my emotions? Link to post Share on other sites
StalwartMind Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 Respect whatever he has to say and how he feels, remember you don't have to agree with it but understand something brought him to the point where he needed this talk. People at all stages of life face difficult choices and situations. This will be an experience you'll remember and learn from, no matter what he has to say. While most people choose not to or simply can't control their emotions whatever the circumstance may be, it'll leave a good impression if you show someone the decency of listening and accepting their choice. In addition to that, don't forget that it's okay to feel whatever you are right now as well as in the coming time. Don't beat yourself up over anything or get caught in a trap of endlessly questioning if you could of done things other wise. What is meant to be in this life is meant to be, most of it is not even within our control as the universe tends to work in mysterious and often unfavorable ways. Link to post Share on other sites
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