Keezbee Posted February 18, 2015 Share Posted February 18, 2015 (edited) Hello there. I'm new to this forum so I would like to write a story about this subject. This subject has only been a part of my life for about 8 months, but made a huge impact on me. I met this girl on Tinder, I think all of you know this dating app. I wasn't really looking for love when I used Tinder, let that be clear. I came out of a nasty nasty break up, and finally moved on after a period of love, hate and frustration. Tinder was a great way to meet woman and have fun talks about life and casual things. One day this girl send me a message just saying heey. I responded with the same thing. Long story short, we've had great talks and accualy fell in love over the phone before we even met. She lived like 1,5 hour drive away from me. (I didn't care about this) One day we planned a date, and so we did. It was GREAT. It was a long time ago for me to feel any kind of love, but with this girl everything felt safe. We dated more and more and got in a relationship. I fell deeply in love with her, but also I had this feeling of distance. When I left to go home, I felt like there was nothing. We lived both different lives, with different friends en things to do. It was hard for me to understand that, but I accepted it and fell in love more. Since a month, i'm single. She dumped me, because she felt like there was nothing when I left, she felt like she was alone. The distance made it hard for her to feel any kind of relationship with me. Even though she loved me and liked me very much, she couldnt see us being together. All I'm trying to say here is that if you go into a long distance relationship, make sure to invest. Invest in being there for eachother. If one doesn't invest as much as the other, things won't work out. It really depends on the person wether its going to work out or not. You have to accept that you can't always be there for her or him in person when she or he needs you. Im still recovering from this hearthbreak. but I'm doing fine! Been reading a lot of things on this forum, that really helped me a lot. It really came in like a bomb on my chest, because I finally accepted the long distance, and fell even more in love. But without communicating about it much, I didn't know she was having a hard time with this distance. The best to all of you ! Edited February 18, 2015 by Keezbee Link to post Share on other sites
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