I havent seen her for 5 months, i wonder how our reunion will be?

[sanderson]

I am embarking on the biggest adventure of my life. After volunteering in Nicaragua in December, I met a lovely girl i'd like to spend my future with.

 

We've been in close contact since meeting, using various methods to communicate.

 

I'm wondering, how will things likely be when reuniting for the first time after so long?

 

What will I have to be aware of?

 

How am I likely to feel?

 

 

Thank you

[justwhoiam]

After volunteering in Nicaragua in December, I met a lovely girl i'd like to spend my future with.

Was she volunteering too? Or is she a local?

 

how will things likely be when reuniting for the first time after so long?

I think that mainly depends on the tone of the communication you've had so far. How far are you in the relationship? Are you intimate with one another or not there yet? Are you comfortable sharing your thoughts, needs, desires with her? And is she?

 

For what I understood, you only met her once, and I'm not sure what happened there. Since you say you want to spend your future with her, I hope you know her enough for such a big step.

 

What will I have to be aware of?

Obviously I don't know your girlfriend, so this might not apply to her, though chances are it could. Anyway, I can only say what it is like for me. As soon as I meet him after months away from each other, the first thing I'm looking for is for him to reaffirm his love for me. I need him to say those 3 little words, that he still feels the same about me. From that on, we get passionate, because we've missed each other lots. I guess that stems from my insecurities caused by long time apart. I'm afraid he will see me different, older, whatever. And I need to be reassured somehow.

I'm not sure it'll always be like that for us. Eventually, I will get more comfortable. But for 3.5 years, it's been like that, also because we went through some rough times and on the verge of breaking up due to external causes. I feel this year might be better, still him showing his love is the first thing I really long for.

 

How am I likely to feel?

I have no idea how you will feel. If you're in love with her, you'll feel great and probably sad when you're about to leave again. Unless you stay for good? I didn't understand if you are going to move where she lives. My man feels at home with me. And I think that's one of the best feelings.