notusingname Posted February 21, 2015 Share Posted February 21, 2015 My wife has told me for years she wants a divorce. Six months ago I seen a big change and knew she was preparing to leave. She started squirreling away money. Two months ago we put together a divorce agreement splitting up just about everything. And a sum on child support. Just tonight I heard she had given someone advice on leaving and stuffing money away and told this person she was pissed that I left last week since it was a few months earlier than she was going to leave. I know its over 20 years down the drain. Where from here? I'm cool with it all but don't know how I'm supposed to act. Divorce aint over yet so I know that I aint dating for a long time. I have too much issues from her to heal from. I just don't know what to do right now. Link to post Share on other sites
LoveMyCat Posted February 21, 2015 Share Posted February 21, 2015 Either file for divorce, or if already filed, just go about setting up your new life in a new place. Make a nice room for kids, etc...not much else you can do. Do not cater to her timetable because she has not "squirreled" away enough. Just pay what you agreed to but make sure you talk with a lawyer. When one spouse wants out, all the other can really do is let them go. And try to move ahead in a positive way, more so when kids are involved. Eventually, it may get ugly...but that may be unavoidable. Just do what you need to do, but take care of yourself as well. Don't be used, or abused. And do things you like to do, even if it just watching TV in peace. Link to post Share on other sites
DivorcedDad123 Posted February 21, 2015 Share Posted February 21, 2015 You do have an attorney,right? What country do you live in? Is the divorce agreement signed by a judge? Link to post Share on other sites
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