A Time Period

[PlasmaBlue9]

Hello. I haven't been here for a few months but, I want to try to get some support for this. In my last thread I had talked about my long distance relationship, and how it ended. Soon enough, I followed one of the instructions of "No Contact", and did it for a month. One day, she asked me to call and play, and I did. She recommended me some music, just like before. I was so happy. But when she left, we just said simple "byes", and I wasn't really satisfied. The next day, I had accidentally called her. And she was like "You don't want to talk to me? :(", I replied "I called the wrong person sorry", she asked "Who are you talking to anyways?", and I replied "friends, y? then she said "I want to know", and I answered the question and I asked if she wanted to talk to me. From there, she did not reply. What I want, is to try to get her back. Like when we used to play together. I want to call her again, and play with her again. I don't think I know how, it seems a bit awkward to me right now. Please give me suggestions on my next move. Here's a link to my other thread, but you don't have to look at it if you don't want to. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/long-distance-relationships/507742-break-up-i-can-t-seem-handle Thank you.

[emi]

LDR can started from game, but it shouldnt evolved around game only. You may not actually love her, you just obsessed.

And most important the question right now you should ask yourself is whether there is any chance to transform this relationship ( if there was any) into real life or not. From your post you are just 16. I know love is irrational and no age limit but the LDR require maturity and financial capacity which some people in their 20s also fail.

 

 

I suggest you again to forget about it until you come up with something realistic and doable.. The longer you wait the more you will suffer

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hello. I haven't been here for a few months but, I want to try to get some support for this. In my last thread I had talked about my long distance relationship, and how it ended. Soon enough, I followed one of the instructions of "No Contact", and did it for a month. One day, she asked me to call and play, and I did. She recommended me some music, just like before. I was so happy. But when she left, we just said simple "byes", and I wasn't really satisfied. The next day, I had accidentally called her. And she was like "You don't want to talk to me? :(", I replied "I called the wrong person sorry", she asked "Who are you talking to anyways?", and I replied "friends, y? then she said "I want to know", and I answered the question and I asked if she wanted to talk to me. From there, she did not reply. What I want, is to try to get her back. Like when we used to play together. I want to call her again, and play with her again. I don't think I know how, it seems a bit awkward to me right now. Please give me suggestions on my next move. Here's a link to my other thread, but you don't have to look at it if you don't want to. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/long-distance-relationships/507742-break-up-i-can-t-seem-handle Thank you.

[d0nnivain]

You are very young & she is even younger. I am not going to invalidate your feelings, because feelings are feelings but to some extent you have to look at this logically.

 

She wasn't your GF in the sense that you ever met IRL. She was a fellow gamer you talked to once in a while.

 

Unfortunately, you were also always her 2nd choice. She liked the other guy before you & more than you but he was unavailable so she settled for you until he became an option, then she dropped you like a hot potato. IMO, that means she is not a very nice person.

 

Yes, rejection hurts. Yes, you miss having somebody to play the game with but your efforts would be better spent finding a new game partner AND a real live GF who lives near you & who you can date in a more conventional sense.