is this a rebound?

[ttgg88]

So many of you have seen my story and maybe thought I was childish and immature and didn't deserve my ex back. I cheated on her once and was just scared of long-term.

 

So I broke up with her December 8. I was mad that we weren't see ing each other. So I really snapped. I love her so much and I know she is the one for me. I really needed to talk to her at the time but my communication was all that great.

 

So she text me one day and said she wanted to make it work. I was happy. So we were trying so I thought then she said she was confused. So I'm asking myself is she confused about everything? One day she wanted it then the next she wanted me to move on.

 

So I recently looked into her fb and seen she has another boyfriend. That she has been commited to for months. So she was just lying to me the whole time. Or was she? I was so hurt. Not only was she seeing him but he and I are friends. Like they went through a lot to hide it. my ex was friends with his girl as well. they both left us for each other.

 

So immaturity set in and I was so angry and furious I posted some the messages on her and James(New boyfriend) ex girlfriend page so she could see as well. my ex was really upset. She had already changed her number and then when she seen stuff getting posted she calls me after ignoring me for day on in. she called me while she was at his house sleeping in his bed. So hurt. so Angry.

 

Some might ask why I didn't leave her alone from the start. She continued to send mixed signals that really had me bound. She was flip floppy...and I'm thinking just three months ago you were in love with me. So confusing. Because we didn't break up because if cheating but all this got bought up. Like I broke up with her.

 

She have been committed to him for months according to the messages. Talks of having kids and all. Told me I needed to get my tuff together if she want ed to work it out. Car...house...ect. but yet this guy has none of this stuff.

 

She pressed charges on me for harassing her on fb. Like all she cares about is her family seeing it. Not the fact the me and her new boyfriend ex saw this as well. Told me she didn't feel sorry for me, that she felt sorry for his ex because she was so good to him. So I'm like your dumb Because if he just left a good girl for you then what will he do when it comes to you. So crazy. But they tell each other they love each other. Over 11000 messages on fb. I didn't even get past 1000. Like I don't know how long they been doing this. Is this just a rebound? How long do they last? And why would she press charges on me?

Edited February 21, 2015 by ttgg88

[love1336x]

"Is this just a rebound?"

If it is a rebound you giving her attention has totally enforced the relationship. She's knows you do not like the relationship, so even if she wanting to end it. She won't.

 

"How long do they last? And why would she press charges on me?"

 

Oh, because she wants you to leave her alone? Duhhh?

She wants to maybe show her new boyfriend.. That she is over you, and by pressing charging is the sure best way!

 

The best thing to do is to leave her alone. She sounds very hurt and very bent on getting even with you. Yes, she did love you, but now this person isn't the woman you love.

 

Beside you cheated, and you didn't want long term.

I know where you have been at. I've cheated, and have broken up with men, and when they agreed to the break up something inside me snaps and i think I want them back, but in reality all I want is their attention. If that what you want from her? Look deep inside yourself. Do you really want a relationship? Your past action say no. Don't follow your greedy heart because you're lonely, and see her being happy.

 

Grow up yourself, love yourself, and then seek a new woman who can love you back.

[CrystalShine2011]

Yes, I would get a woman who can actually treat you right.

[ttgg88]

"Is this just a rebound?"

If it is a rebound you giving her attention has totally enforced the relationship. She's knows you do not like the relationship, so even if she wanting to end it. She won't.

 

"How long do they last? And why would she press charges on me?"

 

Oh, because she wants you to leave her alone? Duhhh?

She wants to maybe show her new boyfriend.. That she is over you, and by pressing charging is the sure best way!

 

The best thing to do is to leave her alone. She sounds very hurt and very bent on getting even with you. Yes, she did love you, but now this person isn't the woman you love.

 

Beside you cheated, and you didn't want long term.

I know where you have been at. I've cheated, and have broken up with men, and when they agreed to the break up something inside me snaps and i think I want them back, but in reality all I want is their attention. If that what you want from her? Look deep inside yourself. Do you really want a relationship? Your past action say no. Don't follow your greedy heart because you're lonely, and see her being happy.

 

Grow up yourself, love yourself, and then seek a new woman who can love you back.

 

I'm pretty sure I was in love with her. I did so much to try and win her and she gave me mixed signals. Especially when I was really ready to move on. And every one doesn't see that. Like she and he were hiding it from not only me and the other dude girl but from every one. I wish it could have went different and I didn't post those messages. Now she pressed charges on me at least for the sake of me she would not have done that. I mean she lied. And just was mean to me as if I was doing something. I honestly feel I dodged a bullet. I mean I still do love her but I don't think it will ever work because of how I reacted. Or maybe it will. But right now I'm the main focus she has took enough of my time already.